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I find it very likely that people who are into audio production want to use their cabled headphones on their phone. I do. And the people who are into hi-fi too. It’s just that it’s too small of a part of the market.
- you can’t charge your phone and listen to music at the same time.
- it’s really easy to loose the adapter, especially if you use your headphones on other devices that still have the jack.
But looking at the larger picture of how relationships are formed, there is no way for it to work this way. And if it were true, it would be just as bad for women—as most of them would stay single! These 20% of men might have an easier time on the apps, and casual hookups might be simpler, but they can’t be in relationships with 80% of women. And a committed partnership of two people keeps being the long term vision for most in the dating game.
And people still have relationships. From the US numbers I could find, the bracket with the most singles is males 18-29, at 51%, which is a lot, but not exactly ‘close to doom’.
https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profi...
EDT: This 80/20 figure initially came from an OKCupid study, and it’s about perceived attractiveness. In this study, 80% of men are perceived as of less than average attractiveness. However, that did not necessarily stop them from getting messaged. https://archive.ph/ZJymw#selection-600.0-633.275
With regards to your example, if you’re rich enough to be able to afford leaving a property you own empty, then I have little sympathy. It seems like their cities and states should introduce a sizeable vacancy tax. Or, as they did in Amsterdam in the 1980ies, tolerate squatting. And yes, maybe see if there’s something that can be done about backlogs in eviction court, but the baseline for me is that it should never be feasible for an owner to leave their house empty.
Hmm… Well, that only works for degrees in engineering, it’s a ‘Technical University’. Also, Delft is probably a great university, but it doesn’t strike me as more prestigious than the other Universities you mention.
For what it’s worth, the members of the Royal family all attended Leiden University. As did the current prime minister. Most ministers of justice in recent history attended Leiden University and were a member of Minerva, a conservative student society.
Still, I wouldn’t consider Leiden a particularly prestigious university—none of the Dutch universities are, because they are all relatively accessible and publicly funded. Instead, the well-connected manage to create their own little groups inside of student life. Like the aforementioned Minerva, which like other student societies (that exist in Delft as well), has students make small clusters (jaarclub, dispuut), with all kinds of barriers to entry. I presume the richest kids cluster together. People then rely on these connections throughout their career.
To me it sounds like you met a group of rich people who were friends in Delft University (and I presume already rich) and relied on this network afterwards: this is a pattern that reproduces itself at other Universities. And inversely, attending Delft University is by no means a guarantee that you can profit from this mechanism.
It’s interesting what you say of not seeing class differences before, I think it’s quite common in The Netherlands. The image the Dutch have of their society is one with very little class differences. This might be a comforting idea in day to day live (as you mention) but it also makes it hard to do something about the unfair situations that persist.
It’s not uncommon though to see mosaic floors in pre-war European homes, especially in entrance halls, but they tend to be designs specific to the space. After all, copying an existing design requires the same floor dimensions.
In Sevilla, there’s actually a palace where the owner changed the dimensions of the rooms to fit the roman mosaics (originals) they had installed https://visitasevilla.es/en/museum-fine-arts-and-other-place...
New mosaics are rare because labour is more expensive, but for sure they still get made. EDT I’ve always figured that it’d be something fun to commission for new buildings because, old as the medium is, you still have the basic elements of colour and form that should allow contemporary artists to express themselves.
for example here’s a recent mosaic in England by Grayson Pery https://static.dezeen.com/uploads/2015/05/A-House-for-Essex_... part of https://www.dezeen.com/2015/05/15/house-for-essex-fat-grayso...
or a Belgian atelier making traditional mosaic floors http://www.mosaicodidue.be/vloeren-nieuw/
Good luck with finding your model! These last years must have been an enriching experience whichever way.
For me it’s hard to imagine living this way because I like to feel connected to where I live, and that takes more time and investment. And I feel it’s better for where I live, because I can get involved in local initiatives, learn the language etc. But I think that’s a common sentiment, that’s why I wonder about how long people tend to do the nomad thing.
I do know plenty of people who have one place as a kind of base station and often end up working in other places for short periods, that might be a nice hybrid model.
There’s this chastising of owning things (‘the things own you’) that comes up every now and again, but I think that could be reserved for when these objects stop being something you cherish and start to be something you consume: fast fashion, consumer electronics upgrade cycles, etc.
In this article not owning things seems to be a prerequisite for a certain lifestyle of hopping around the world with a laptop, but if that’s your thing, why not simply rent out your apartment? It seems unlikely to be something you’d want to do for years on end. Although I’d be curious to see some data on that, digital nomad churn rate.
I sympathise with wanting to keep the presentation. It was made in and for this context. It’s like reading an old magazine, you get so many extra clues about the context from the design. If a magazine does a redesign, it only affects the issues going forward. In my ideal world, blog redesigns work the same way.
I’ve done my share of maintaining and archiving older websites, where I tried to keep the design in place while updating the underlying infrastructure (or converting it to static HTML). The one thing I would sometimes change is to ‘zoom in’, multiplying all pixels in the CSS by a small amount, because the web moved to larger text sizes and screens, so older websites tend to look tiny.
> In the 1960s, Dutch cities were increasingly in thrall to motorists, with the car seen as the transport of the future. It took the intolerable toll of child traffic deaths – and fierce activism – to turn Amsterdam into the cycling nirvana of today
https://www.theguardian.com/cities/2015/may/05/amsterdam-bic...
For sure it’s easier to clean, but on the ones I’ve used I find the “buttons” very fidgety because of this flat design. I’d sacrifice some ease in cleaning for the tactile feedback of mechanical buttons or ideally a (stepped) dial.