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I suspect it couldn't be a physics result, because the question is something like "Why does the universe follow natural laws at all" and/or "what IS a natural law, in metaphysical terms" ?
Federal budget has been ~ 30-35% of GDP since the '80s, although there was a spike during the Great Recession for obvious reasons.
Same thing is likely to hold vis-a-vis neuroscience and philosophy of mind.
But for me, time spent by myself isn't an empty expanse that I'm too scared to fill with socializing. It's absolutely vital to me, it's when I can really think, write, read, be creative, experience my emotions, etc.
I'm fine with socializing (preferably in a small group, with close friends -- I don't get much out of parties or big get-togethers) but I need to make room in my schedule for solitude.
This. More and more, I've realized that I want my kid to have empathy, curiosity about the world, and a strong sense of self, and I trust that the rest will fall into place.
The specifics of what she learns or what her interests are, matter less. (Obviously I want her to learn all the academic basics, reading and math, etc.)
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- Imagination
- Self-actualization / strong sense of self
- Names of dinosaurs
That's a really sweeping statement. In reference to this particular article, there may be a lot of reasons why fewer American children travel to school by themselves, including geography and transportation options.
My kid could definitely bike to school when she gets older. But to get to, say, her gymnastics class, it's 8 miles through heavy traffic with only occasional bike lanes. (In the dark in the rain, at this time of year.)
I walked to school by myself in NYC. Now I live in the suburbs, and I see plenty of kids walking themselves to school in my neighborhood. But a lot of it depends on how far away you live and the route.
Basically, I don't worry about my daughter's ability to find her way to school, I worry about her getting run down by some idiot in an SUV.
> People forget how recent is the development of our whole ungainly apparatus. A century and a half ago, time zones didn’t exist.
That's true, but not because everyone was living on GMT. Time zones are somewhat arbitrary, but aligning everyone to a single time zone is even more arbitrary.
Also, the ability to do rote sums is not the same as understanding math. So the fact that his son "could add up already" doesn't mean much, at least out of context.
But solitude (at least for me) isn't just about not being around people, as if people are some kind of negative stimulus, like an allergen.
Solitude is more like a basic need for me, and too much socializing is like being starved of that need.
- Quick, 5 to 10 minutes
- Strictly focused on current status and blockers,
- Attended only by people who are directly working on the same project.
- Has someone designated to run the standup, who is empowered to table any discussions that start to drift.
(We work in teams of 4-6 and standup is never more than 10 minutes. I've also had the "30-minute standup" which not really a standup...)