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Site: previnder.com
Email: hello@previnder.com
I've now just dropped the "no politics" rule, because people seem to get the wrong idea.
Looking at this from your perspective, you have a really good point here. And I don't know exactly what to say to you except that, at the end of the day, with anything with network effects, you have to trust someone. This even applies to the fediverse; you have to trust the admins.
Perhaps the most that someone can do here is to proclaim their values loudly, so that they are, at the very least, putting their reputation on the line.
If you have any ideas what I could do here, I'd love to hear. Seriously.
Right now the site is very basic. But this is an interesting idea to explore, for sure.
I'm also thinking of similar ideas. Examples: moderator logs for transparency; ability for members to vote moderators out, etc.
I understand that one cannot draw a line to clearly separate categories from categories, but that doesn't mean that categories don't exist.
As to the definition of these terms, I was only thinking of their "common sense" meaning.
The Pali word 'mettā' means something quite similar to 'agape'. In Buddhist traditions, mettā (or loving-kindess) meditation is all about cultivating this sort of sentiment by conscious effort. From the very little I've practiced this, I can confirm your point about how benevolence, for some reason, reduces fear and anxiety (often we aren't even aware that it's there).
This is the single greatest barrier to entry that's not going to go away without compromising the ideals of federation.