33 karma · joined November 9, 2018
Sounds like Queer Liberation is for you! This is very common, and there are very traditional roles for this in my community. I know plenty of ladies who will tell their partners what they are comfortably expected to do. It's a high consent environment, so you still ultimately have the right to choose differently.
Not all groups face the same oppression and this term intentionally names the two groups which are systematically the most oppressed in a US context.
http://www.colonrectal.org/services.cfm/sid:7580/Abnormal_An...
[1] https://www.military.com/join-armed-forces/eligibility-requi...
[2] https://www.militarytimes.com/news/your-military/2019/06/12/...