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Which clearly shows that something is wrong in the industry, or how management roles are filled, or how wealth and influence and opportunities are distributed generally.
Unfortunately government intervention makes it even more unpredictable when that will be.
Too bad the hospitals don’t figure out some way of providing preventive care to the uninsured to reduce these costs.
If anyone reading this is thinking about having kids, be really careful who you have them with.
I think this proves my point.
One could just as easily say “women kill their young children in every country”, because some mentally ill women sometimes do so. That’s not the same as societal acceptance of the practice.
Or we could generalize any negative behavior to any group that has members that do that behavior, which would obviously be an incorrect generalization.
And again that’s separate from child support. I’d bet the child support number is 80%+, with the remainder being women that earn huge amounts of money or who decide not to be in their kids’ lives and have zero custody.
Just going to say that the perspective of having kids and getting to spend your time not working, or stressing about work, and instead spending it with family and raising your kid, doesn’t seem like a hellish job to me, and besides that it isn’t clear to me the father would be the “employer” in that context, rather both work in the way they agree to within the context of their relationship for the benefit of their child. Many men would like to raise their kids while someone else goes to work.
Where in the western world is this happening?
Untrue. Alimony, child support.
> Men, particularly young men, are having trouble adjusting to this.
I see just as much anecdotal evidence that men are often (who knows what the percent breakdown is) the ones no longer seeking relationships, and articles authored by women lamenting the availability of highly desirable male partners.
> 24/7, room and board only
This seems like an overly negative view. All the work isn’t done by one partner, income is spent by both, the female partner often spends a higher percent of the income statistically (not implying anything by this, they may just be the one shopping for groceries), they share in what the income buys and the lifestyle of the couple, they also keep half of the asset appreciation, etc.
No unnecessary gatekeeping, but maximum necessary quality standards (which I distinguish from gatekeeping).