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Think of an area of your body as only being able to transmit one signal to your brain at a time, i.e., only one signal may pass through the gate. If you are experiencing chronic pain in an area, you can apply a different (non painful) stimulus to attempt to override the painful stimulus. To achieve this, many physicians recommend wearing and applying a TENS unit (transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation) to the areas you experience pain. It is around $30 on amazon. Cheap solution that is worth a try.
There is more to say on this topic, and I am happy to discuss further. I wish you all the best.
[0] https://www.physio-pedia.com/Gate_Control_Theory_of_Pain
https://static01.nyt.com/images/2018/10/23/opinion/23bruni-n...
A lot of my best friends are women. Recently I went through a major accomplishment. I had five women friends text me to congratulate me.
I feel that I dress well, and I am a physically fit marathon-running, motorcycle-riding, outdoorsman. Social awkwardness yes but I think it comes across as being sincere.
This is my unhealthy mindset talking (perhaps) but it isn't necessarily low ego, it's just life, pop culture, etc does not align with the values I was taught as a child, growing up in a conservative religious home.