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https://www.reddit.com/r/SuicideWatch/comments/1yktjp/are_the_poor_and_unemployed_supposed_to_kill/
https://www.reddit.com/r/jobs/comments/4ogbv9/been_almost_2_years_without_a_job_honestly/
https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2014/09/18/college-drove-me-to-the-brink-of-suicide/
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3695613/Student-23-university-hanged-flunking-degree.html
Money, degrees, and productivity are not metrics of a live well lived. There are metrics such as self-reported happiness, marriage and divorce rates, birth rates, and other things that paint a much fuller picture. You need to figure out what is good for you.
Some advice to other women developers. Take the money from silicon valley, then run to a cheaper place to live. Invest it well, and relax.
ex. Buy a duplex, and rent one part of it out to pay your bills.
The beginning of wisdom is to call things by their proper name.
— Confucius
I do hope now that both parties seem to believe its rigged or needs auditing. We can get some real reform, like voter id laws and paper trails like most other reasonable countries. ex. India has voter id laws, and I think Ireland scrapped electronic voting.
I guess the comments about the new right being technocrats may be true.
I really wish we had more genomic data from across the world.
When I discuss these and sometimes any issue really with engineers or scientists, I try to find technical research papers with null hypothesizes and methodology.
My point being for technical people like engineers, you aren't convincing a lot of people with light fluffy pieces without links to hard data, in fact you get them even more entrenched in their current way of thinking because they think you don't have real scientific evidence.
I've found in personal experience, technical people are far more open minded then the general population, but they tolerate far less bullshit.
"But what is also obvious is that it can be very difficult to untangle mom and dad’s contributions because they tend to track together in age. Older dads tend to have children with older moms."
It's a pretty big confounding variable.
I thought it was weird as heck, but when I researched it showed they had 4x for heart issues against the general population in america.
https://stanfordhealthcare.org/stanford-health-now/2015/sout...
So I've been bouncing around startups,and even started contracting under my own c-corp to make connections and money. The respect difference has been unreal. I've had to toughen up significantly, you have to really learn to read bs and move on without emotion.
That's another option you can take, I'm personally enjoying it right now.
Poor or even worse bullshit articles and poor citations just make the backlash worse, and even harder to get accepted without having to prove I'm at the least a mythical 2x-5x developer.
Also area's like India,when men and women are under more economic pressure, there is more gender equal distribution in fields.
I've had this explained to me as the "Nordic Paradox".