This needs dedicated Prominenz
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This needs dedicated Prominenz
Ask HN: Whats the difference between qlot vs. ocicl? (SBCL package managers)
https://www.amazon.com/Human-Life-George-ONeil/dp/092997901X
https://en.giorgiotarditispagnoli.com/post/anthroposophical-...
() is nothing and (is something) What does the implementation show more beautiful than that?
In german: https://www.berliner-zeitung.de/news/berlin-feuerwehr-herzpr...
They argue to change from mandatory vaccination to optional vaccination for their profession.
Evolution will tell what the right choice was. I am having popcorn while watching the extremists battle each others position.
Dealing with the lonliness from the kids was the toughest. If you cant get along with the mum. Accept it and leave the kids behind in love. Maybe write every now and then dont blame yourself. If you get along well you should keep in touch with them. Otherwise it will drain you and them of so much energy that in the end nobody has a chance to become happy. And to become happy is what you should prioritize on. Otherwise your kids wont learn how to deal positivly when they are ready to see you again.
On lonlines: A very positive strategy for me was that I opened my self again as a spiritual being after being atheist for most of my life. I was lucky to find a church community that I liked. Its is also a place where you have a chance to socialize with all ages not only your age or interest group democraphic. This helps to broaden your social skills. I recommend attentending a service where they sometimes socialize afterwards (Brunch together, discuss or have Coffee together). I found it extremly valuable to connect with older folks and talk about their perception of loneliness and life. Also christians teach to talk to god. So in the end your not alone anyway, somehow. Just try out some services and communities till you find one that you feel welcome and positiv. Open up to singing and worship without judging yourself beeing unauthentic. There are lines in the songs you can connect and others you cant. This can really free blocks and helps to become less judgmental on yourself and others. Ofcause beware of sects that just want money. On the other hand look at it like it is a service you pay for. Like gym, shrinks, alcohol etc. It might be the cheaper option.
Regarding women and other releationships... 1. Accept and learn to understand your needs and preferences. Stop blaming yourself. It's all part of the experience. You are ok. And dont bend yourself to satisfy others but learn from others. 2. Learn the game. There are some rules. Most important is 1. There is great literature about it. Must reads are from David Schnarch.
Enjoy the ride there is a lot to discover. To force yourself into "learning to be lonly" postpone it to after death.
Good luck.
Erich Fromm The Art of Loving
David schnarch Passionate Marriage: Sex, Love & Intimacy in emotionally committed relationships.
And before you get married... Get some new perspective why ...
Wolfgang gädecke, Sexuality, Partnership and Marriage : From a Spiritual Perspective
Still i wonder how much it effects my productivity decline in Office since i still search sometimes for functionality. In anyway it made me hate office and made Switch to open Office wherever i can. However I attribute it to having kicked of my quest for a plaintext workflow because beeing f*ked over by feature bloat and Designer circle jerking once to many times.
Simplicity is king. Maybe its just the age that makes me realize that there are just to many layers of complexity.
I feel for the young learners that get thrown into this world and dont even understand the concept of a file system tree anymore. It has been abstracted away. it's not in the cloud! It's in the app with 3 klicks reachable or doesn't exist.
Centralized logs,analyse and react on incidents.
However with over 100 tasks per month it gets complicated
There are jira addons for this