> The context for this argument is that joining a profitable business carries less risk of being deceived / manipulated and waking up after 4+ years to a reality that is totally different than what you were repeatedly lectured to expect.
> Your response doesn't really refute or address that argument. You are claiming that in the theoretical case that you are given 100% valid information and 0% hype, you should be able to to get a more accurate profit expectation. That's, of course, true.
You need to put yourself in a position where being deceived is fraud. If they show you fake revenue numbers that's fraud. If you don't understand that the real revenue numbers they are giving you aren't good enough, that's not fraud. If they don't tell you every single thing about the business that's not fraud. If they tell you they expect the business to do really well and it doesn't, that's not fraud. Ask the questions you need to get a feel for if the risk is worth it to you and take an educated risk. If they don't give you enough information run.
How much the employer hypes the position doesn't even come into the equation. I don't really understand why you think it's an important thing. Hype is not part of the deal. The numbers and the structure of the agreement are. Of course the CEO is excited about his company why else would he be risking so much to start it? Stop paying attention to emotions and start paying attention to the documents you are signing and the deals you are making.
> What Skype (technically, SLP) did was obviously legal, but extremely shady, and a good example of a savvy business tricking naive engineers. This wasn't innocent: these options that could (and eventually did) amount to millions of dollars were dangled in front of the employees noses since they were mere candidates. And all this time, they were actually worthless.
Again, why are you letting these engineers off the hook for not reading or understanding documents they signed that said in really big letters SIGN HERE IF YOU UNDERSTAND THIS. I can't imagine anything less misleading than spelling out your exact intent in legalese and then following through with it. Engineers chose to pay attention to the cheer leaders instead of the lawyers to their detriment. Why would employees expect Skype lawyers and managers to be on their team?
> Now I'm curious: which are these employers, in your opinion?
Cap table access is rare though I've gotten it a few times, and high level numbers about the cap table are not (# shares, %owned be investors etc.), revenue numbers are widely available, projections are widely available, I dunno man these aren't huge things for early stage employees to ask for, I think most people just usually don't.