It's time to take a deep breath and grow up.
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It's time to take a deep breath and grow up.
In any case, hypocrites come and go, but these problems are indeed very important and in need of some organized solutions. Our "oppressive" traditions and social structures have been cast aside, and many jobs have been outsourced to elsewhere. I'm watching the twenty-somethings around me try to deal with this wonderful new society, and it's very sad.
In my work, I like to get the new systems working before deleting the old ones...
No one in our society is "left to die" because they don't have a job.
Also, '\rm', as many distributions insist on aliasing 'rm' by default.
http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-yo...
You lost me here, as in my experience, such activity has been in significant decline over my lifetime. We're actually living in a golden age where science and reason are ascendant.
Using this as a pretext for silencing people that don't agree with us seems particularly pernicious.
There is no real maximum to the amount of calories your body can waste (as heat or by excretion). Nor is there any law saying that we're all equally efficient (or even close).
The HQ plan would have been a massive jump and very likely an increased growth rate thereafter. That won't happen now.
I'm inferring that you have a family to support. (If it's just you, I'd seriously consider declaring bankruptcy.) I can relate. For what it's worth, this can be the lot of men in our society. I don't think it's an indication that you did anything wrong. Good luck.
Unfortunately, though it lays out the problem clearly, it doesn't present much in the way of solutions, and indeed, there may be few good ones. It may be that sex and mating is ultimately just a Kobayashi Maru, not so much to be performed successfully as with a dignified, sad grace.
Like a distant god, Google gives and Google takes away...
I met my wife on OKC, using a age selection range of +/- 10%. (I didn't expect to find anyone at all interesting more than a year older than me, and indeed did not.) She's a couple of years younger, but arguably more mature. It's awesome.
Beyond that, looks are (sadly) crucially important. Pick someone who's a careful match, or perhaps slightly less attractive. Missing on this is a recipe for misery.
Also, many older women are asexual. Beware, if it matters to you.
My own take: Erotica is a good thing to the degree that it takes the edge off of libido. Being dragged around by your "little man" is a curse, and your life will greatly improve once you figure out how to stop this (one way or another).
Your first reaction to a naked woman should be "meh". It's only after you know her well that it might be more.
I would have been intellectually destitute as a kid had I not had weekly trips to the library. I lived in the middle of nowhere, and there were no adults around who knew anything about what I was interested in. Perhaps the web would now fill that need. Not sure, though. It was a magical place.