Attraction Inequality and the Dating Economy
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My god. What the PUA and MRA communities have been saying all along...
Unfortunately, though it lays out the problem clearly, it doesn't present much in the way of solutions, and indeed, there may be few good ones. It may be that sex and mating is ultimately just a Kobayashi Maru, not so much to be performed successfully as with a dignified, sad grace.