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Small things you can start off with:
- Use less emoji's when interacting via SMS or Slack with your colleagues. Indicate a little less sentiment.
- Learn to say no, nicely.
- Stop being obligated into situations you don't want to be part of (meetings, situations, etc)
Some people will say that you're "imagining" these thoughts - that they aren't reality. If you have a high EQ, you may not be, and this may be what is actually going on. Consider this a gift - that you feel like you might be able to "read" people. Also be aware that you could be wrong on this.
Regardless - you can't live your life based on other peoples emotions. Act accordingly - if it helps, act as if you couldn't read that person.
Happy to chat about this further.
Slowly integrate them into meetings, company decisions; make sure it's someone you trust. And slowly step back.
Just an off-cuff thought.
Overcome this by being painfully detail orientated. And never sub-contract, except to _extremely_ trust sources.
Scrapping unit tests is scrapping time.
Let me say this: I went to a meetup several months ago for an Angular event. The speaker was horribly unimpressive; quite literally copy and pasted code from the Angular Demo site in-front of us for the "demo", and couldn't answer in-depth questions. No one liked this "evangelist".
In short; have a conviction for what your evangelizing, and dig deep into it.
Only on HN, would the same crowd that ferociously defends data privacy, decide to play devil's advocate on this comment.
(Regarding the thread under the parent post)
Especially with all the factors to consider (neighbors, location, salary, relativity to peers, etc.)
Network with small to mid-size consulting companies. If they can trust you, it's a win-win. You 1099 with them, they make $20-$30+/hr off the top of your rate w/ no burdens of having you as an employee.
This also removes the complications of the sales side of things.
Couldn't be happier with AWS.
Edit: Imagine if they would've had a male styled version, and tried to get Kanye West, or some other pop/style star wearing them.
Huge miss.
i.e. Have you successfully implemented a good OAuth[2] security system? Can you explain the difference between JWTs, and session auth? Why choose one over the other. Talk to me about SSL a little bit, even at a high-level. How do you secure APIs? Talk to me about how you encrypt passwords, and sensative data.
Have you had to deal with PCI DSS?
This is one of the differences between "I'm a developer who has maintained a simple CRUD app" and "I'm a senior developer who can build a secure system".
Or in other words, authentication separates the men from the boys.
1) Build an MVP, and get it to beta. 2) _Then_ get customers to try it out (give them an incentive, such as giving it to them for free). This works well with individuals, or small businesses. Larger company's won't give you the time of day, and you probably want to wait until you have some sort of following before you approach them; or you'll get squashed. 3) Get feedback. 4) Repeat steps 2/3 until your out of beta.
Redis is usually used for caching and scaling that DB's have a hard[er] time with. Not as a primary datastore.