848 karma · joined May 14, 2013
There is no need to see 50 photos of each vacation or birthday, but it's nice to see 3-5 and have the ability to dig deeper if you want to.
I think it works so well because it is not a negotiation. Just stating my fake current number and they can make up their number.
I think of a number I want to earn in the new job. For example, if I would currently make 100k, I say I currently make 115k in my current role, and then they offer 120k. I accept, done.
I did this after a bad experience. Made-up numbers. They offer me 80k, I already make 90k, I say I already make more. They ask how much, I say 90k, they say we can match that and one more week of vacations. I give them a pass, they ask why, I say I got another offer for 110k, they say we could have given you 110k too.
If they are allowed to lie, I can too.
I do not look at side projects that are set up to make money as side projects. Those are businesses you create with the goal of making money. And when you also have a full-time job creating a business on the side is hard enough, so no fun projects.
Basically, I look at it this way:
A) Fulltime job + building a business on the side
B) Fulltime job + fun projects
I don't mix those. Sure, sometimes you set up a new project to try out new technology. But that is for learning, and you do not have to finish the product.
Yes, we like to avoid it, so we come up with excuses like let's get a certificate. It's pointless. Learn to sell yourself or get another job.
Kudos to all who love git, for me, it's just a tool I have to use.
Recently, I started a new project for work with Blazor, and I felt at home again. It was weird, just a relief to work with what I know best.
I'm not saying Blazor is good or you should use it, but for me, coding was fun again. I truly hope I do not have to work a lot with JavaScript ever again. I just do not enjoy it. Maybe I have to go to full backend after so many years of full stack.
"I think the folks building Tailwind are talented and nice people. But at a pure technical level, I simply don't like Tailwind. Whoever it was built for, it was not built for me."