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"The Greatest Salesman on Earth" by Og Mandino
"The Zahir" by Paolo Coelho is about challenging tradition, highly recommend.
"How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie
When I was in high school- "The Alchemist" by Paolo Coelho
It takes a real sense of personal commitment, especially after you’ve arrived at a position of power and responsibility, to push yourself to grow and challenge conventional wisdom. Which is why two of the most important questions leaders face are as simple as they are profound: Are you learning, as an organization and as an individual, as fast as the world is changing? Are you as determined to stay interested as to be interesting? Remember, it’s what you learn after you know it all that counts."
"what I like about you she told me is that you're crude -- look at you sitting there a beercan in your hand and a cigar in your mouth and look at your dirty hairy belly sticking out from under your shirt. you've got your shoes off and you've got a hole in your right stocking with the big toe sticking out. you haven't shaved in 4 or 5 days. your teeth are yellow and your eyebrows hang down all twisted and you've got enough scars to scare the shit out of anybody. there's always a ring in your bathtub your telephone is covered with grease and half the crap in your refrigerator is rotten. you never wash your car. you've got newspapers a week old on the floor. you read dirty magazines and you don't have a tv but you order deliveries from the liquor store and you tip good. and best of all you don't push a woman to go to bed with you. you seem hardly interested and when I talk to you you don't say anything you just look around the room or scratch your neck like you don't hear me. you've got an old wet towel in the sink and a photo of Mussolini on the wall and you never complain about anything and you never ask questions and I've known you for 6 months but I have no idea who you are. you're like some pulled down shade but that's what I like about you: your crudeness: a woman can drop out of your life and forget you real fast. a woman can't go anywhere but UP after leaving you, honey. you've got to be the best thing that ever happened to a girl who's between one guy and the next and has nothing to do at the moment. this fucking Scotch is great. let's play Scrabble."
Favourite poets: Rumi, Neruda, Herrick, Byron, Keats, Frost...
I just tweeted Gimlet to see if it encourages a response, but I'm nobody special on Twitter so don't get your hopes up. ;)
It sounds like you are doing pretty okay to me!
I'd like to believe the industry attracts just as many people who are trying to make the world suck less... like every person who was just disgusted by this story.
If you're a guy and/or not into wearing lingerie you can always wear a ridiculous shirt underneath your presentation clothes that has something outrageous on it. Or (if you're crazy enough) put a printout of something random, like a banana or a hamster or Oscar the Grouch in your pocket. Just thinking in the first ten seconds that you did something so nonsensical make you kind of wonder if you are losing your mind- in which case you may have a little chuckle to yourself, causing the tension to dissolve. Also, you will know something the audience absolutely doesn't.
I realize this is exceptionally unorthodox advice, but it works so don't knock it 'til you've tried it.
Another tip is to pretend that you are talking to a room full of friends, that you have been accepted by all of the audience members already and they support you. Takes the edge off...
jsonne is absolutely right the lead up is always worse and after 10 to 20 seconds it starts to feel normal.
Knock 'em dead, you're gonna kill it.
In order to help you out, I need to know a little more about your business. What are you building and how have you determined demand?
(This will help me get a general idea of the path you need to take and how to get there)
In terms of books- I've never really read one that can replace experience. Unfortunately the times I've learned most have been times I've tried and failed.
What I highly recommend, though, is a business plan. Check out any old business plan template on the internet- I've written many and I recommend that you do a brief plan (1-10 pages) and focus on your financial statement. It will help you sniff out all the hidden costs you wouldn't typically think about (electricity, depreciation, office space- even if it's in your house) so that you can get a clear idea of how much you need to make in order see growth.
Feel free to get in touch on HN or email p@libertyfeminine.com and good luck!
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You seem to be a super bright guy who experienced a momentary lapse in judgement fuelled by emotion. We all do this, it's just not always public.
Also- I don't know how old you were at the time this story occurred but according to neuroscience, the frontal lobe doesn't develop until we are 25-27 years old (males develop later than females) and this is exactly the type of mistake the frontal lobe prevents us from making.
I hope you've recovered from this incident and have learned to not take these mistakes too personally...
Even calculators make mistakes.
What we love:
-Love the way podcasts play and the little circle on the bottom right hand corner for play/pause -The flow of new podcasts for the week -The general layout -"I like the concept. The idea is great to see what new podcasts are there instead of just relying on iTunes top 10 list" -"I like that you can fast forward or rewind the podcast with your finger instead of that 10 sec but they have on podcast" -(Note: my friend preferred this, but I like the 10 second fwd/back)
What can use some improvement:
-"The app is very glitchy. I'm "following" you but you don't appear as one of my "friends" and I can't read what it says below your name (I'm assuming you connected through Twitter)" -"It would also be nice to have a page where you could see a list of everyone who is following you and who you are following" -"Also I can't go into your profile to see who you're following!" -(Likewise, I was not notified that my friend had started following me. I don't know where to find my friends?) -"I can't go into a podcast to see who liked it..." -I'm not sure if I just can't find it but I typically prefer to download podcasts in order to save on data. They help me get through my 3hr commute. -"I don't like how they make you sign up with connecting FB or Twitter No other option to just sign up independently of the other apps" (I agree with this)
Overall the consensus was that we can't wait to make this our number one podcasting app and are genuinely excited for how this all develops! I'm not sure if you've talked to the guys over at Gimlet about your app, or if they are hard to reach... I did notice you have Gimlet shows on the screens on your website, but you are both part of the podcast revolution.
My other two podcast friends are at a wedding for the weekend, but I will follow up with them when they get back.
Love your app!! It's like Instagram for Podcasts!
One thing I've noticed immediately is that I can't import my podcasts from the podcast app... is this not a possibility?
As a species, I don't think we're even ready for the answers to any of the scientific and philosophical questions we've been asking since the beginning of time anyway.