I've gone from super excited about life and the future when I sat down at my computer to pessimistic and frustrated with society.
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Coming out of college making 6 figures in silicon valley does not make you a god. It's the other things.
I've gone from super excited about life and the future when I sat down at my computer to pessimistic and frustrated with society.
But maybe it's more than that. The will power to overcome our intrinsic limits eventually runs out. We can only focus on the ball so long before our thoughts wander. And at some point below the average of our capabilities, we get tired of taking a break and start to perform again as well as we know we can.
I guess they have to think, what is the alternative? We can't change our role in the Middle East. We can't just stop supporting Israel for example.
I suppose yes, they tried Camp David. I guess I just want everyone to cease fire.
Maybe the overpowered people resorting to terrorism, I do hate that word, have to think there is a positive outcome from the cease fire. If they cease firing and life doesn't improve, why did they cease firing? At least firing alleviates the frustration of it all. They think they are hurting those who are hurting themselves.
But life for the Palestinians never improves no matter. It just keeps getting worse and worse and worse for them. The people with the power have to stop exerting it over others and selfishly taking more.
I had a buddy in Afghanistan and he said their way of life is 500 years old. I mean, I think okay, if they don't want to progress, that doesn't mean we should use the tools of our progress to take from them so we can progress more.
I think at some point we have to stop betraying people.
It's a testament to how much we know today relative to yesterday.
How can people inside the military be so incredibly smart, yet still think it makes sense to ... you know, kill people's friends and families and not expect them to become terrorists.
What am I missing? It can't just be greed. Military industrial complex. The military minds aren't smarter than that? I struggle with it.
There's a real value in that and all it cost me was a phone call. No money well spent, imo. I was going to wake up that day anyway.
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I'm excited for you. You're embarking on a great journey, you don't even know! Or maybe you do. :)
I feel like this kind of attitude stops people from achieving more, "Oh, I can never be like The Rock, so why bother, clearly he has more going for him, whatever..."
But don't let the lack of his genetics stop you! You are in control of your body and yes, your limits may not get you biceps as big as a thigh, but you will get stronger and more fit and be proud of your accomplishment. You will have more self-confidence for no other reason than believing in yourself enough to do it and succeed.
Like all things that are hard, people just give up. They don't have the vision to see it through.
Don't measure yourself by the achievements of Dwayne Johnson. He's a primo genetic specimen, physically and mentally, not all of us can be like that, but you can put in some hard work and become a better person, be more fit, stronger, and more powerful.
The first week I was there, one looked me and said, "It's hard, okay. Don't give up. Commit to 4 months of work and you will notice a difference. You will get stronger. You will bulk up. Don't give up. It takes time."
So I did. 4 months was nothing. I got a lot stronger. I put on mass. It worked!
This girl I had a crush on, she looked at me one day, looked at my new biceps and said, "Wow, you aren't so skinny anymore."
Within a couple years, I was curling 75 lbs on the preacher bench. Before I started, I couldn't bench press 50. If you want to change your life: Exercise. It takes time and energy and commitment, but it really does work and you will feel powerful and in control of your body like you never thought possible. People will look at you differently -- with admiration, with envy, with fear, with lust. Your life will change.
Human beings are the problem.
But I love every single one of them! "Hi, yes, sorry you're having trouble, I am happy to help. Which customer are you with? What is your username? Ah, let me send you a password reset to your email address. Did you get it?"
"Yes."
"Ok, great. Let me know if you need anything else."
And you can hear their tone of voice change immediately to, "OMG, this person was so nice and I was so mean to them and I was clearly doing something wrong, but I don't know what it was, but wow, I actually called a company on the internet today and someone answered the phone and actually solved my problem!!!!"
Nothing better than making customers happy.
The Hard Thing about Hard Things by Ben Horowitz
Strategy Rules - Five Timeless Lessons from Bill Gates, Andy Grove, and Steve Jobs by David B. Yoffie, Michael A. Cusumano
These are all timely books and recently written.
Coincidence, of course. Spooky. For sure.
The problem is organizing and collecting the information and ensuring it is useful later, rather than just during the 5 minutes. Let users break a chat message out into a threaded discussion for example. We already have plenty of voice and video chat options, we can just pick up a phone. Those things are ephemeral. Text is forever. Let's keep more of that so we can use it to further the business objectives.
You could say that's bad planning, you could also say it's throwing spaghetti at the wall to see which sales person sticks. Data gathering, if you will.
You'll easily pay $800 for one of these stoves, used -- in the summer. Which is why I was saying that you can just use an inflation calculator to figure out how much things cost today relative to yesterday. We have better technology, more building codes to follow, and more things to buy.
Life does cost more today than it did back then, more than inflation can account for.
What I didn't like about it was just all the memorization. I had no desire to memorize a bunch of formulas that I knew full well in the real world I'd look up in a table or type into a computer. What I wanted to learn how to do was solve problems using math, not memorize patterns of formulas to apply to problems.
So I didn't memorize them and instead went to work and earned money to pay for college. Still passed the class but it was one of my lowest grades. It's a hard class even without the memorization.
He does say, "That price does not include windows, door, insulation or interior furnishings. In place of a brick fireplace I have recommended a recycled steel barrel stove and stove kit from Vogelzang that would be more efficient."
Those things he is excluding will easily double the price. A wood stove costs thousands, maybe hundreds used. 8 sqft of insulation is $50. Windows are $200 each. A door the same or more. And also, 10'x15' isn't really viable for a home, even for one person, much less a family that wants a shower in the bathroom.
We also have building codes now that require a functional kitchen and bathroom which add significantly to the price of a livable structure the government won't tear down.
I think bare minimum costs to build a livable structure today, would be in the $50,000 range and the mortgage on that would be $300 per month, which would fit within my proposed living stipend of $2,000 per month per family of 4.