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Take a look at goreplay. https://github.com/buger/goreplay/wiki
You sound like someone I might know. I hope I'm wrong, if I'm not please reach out.
Trick is, you have to be satisfied with yourself first and be happy living alone without setting any expectations upon yourself. Only then you can start searching for a partner who will further improve your life. There is no silver bullet, because this is a process and every person has to find solution by him/herself.
Have you tried multiple different activities even if you had no prior experience?
For example: animal shelters are really happy if someone comes by and offers to walk the dogs. You get to experience new things and possibly meet new people during the walks.
Try to search for activities where you are forced to spend some time with other people without any romantic agenda. Like sports activities, impro theater, Toastmasters communities etc.
Because I use rest of their services as well. I understand privacy wise it's not most the optimal solution and I might consider using alternatives in the future.
Due to personal reasons had to pause publishing for quite some time. Had really encouraging talk this week with one of the more visible members of my local tech community who shared some really actionable blogging tips with me.
If you are looking for an accountability buddy blogging wise feel free to ping me.
For real load tests you should replicate real traffic with something like wrk.
I've been questioning myself if that real estate fund is worth investing into something like index funds for short-term (3-5 years) or is it better to be safe than sorry and just leave it in savings account.