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* Imposter Syndrome in work situations
* social faux pas for the neuro-diverse among us
So my biggest takeaway is: can we get really comfortable with that feeling instead of feeling hurt by it, and use it in a positive way? As @hollywood_court mentioned it must be possible to use that for conscious behaviour changes - choosing to change rather than masking to fit in.
So far the favourite library is Fast-JSON-Patch[1]. The method we're trying is to build up a sequence of patches - so every object in the game can add a patch to the queue, and then once the system is ready, it can apply the patches and validate the result.
This particluar library allows the code to directly manipulate the object, and generate a patch from the changes made - so it keeps the code simple and easy to understand.
- websites telling me I have an invalid name
- post addressed to O'Rourke, O\\\Rourke, O&Rourke
- "my account" pages say "Welcome, Mr O\Rourke"
I'm using Obsidian and find it makes the Zettelkasten-style experience even easier, because you don't need any arbitrary ID on each note, just a name, and you can easily create new links to notes which don't yet exist. You can definitely use it to create an 'antinet'.
Schema-on-write increases the cost (mental load, time) of finding useful things in the first place, which isn't always what you want. I happen upon an interesting HN article (like this) and (like the author) dump it in my "later" pile - often that's during a little ADHD-brain distraction, where I just browse and read for a few mins before jumping back into a piece of work. I specifically DO NOT want extra cognitive load at that point.
The balance is always a bit of both - sometimes organise, sometimes defer it. But always allocate some time for "emptying" those queues, lists, inboxes, etc - that's the critical part of staying organised and usually the hardest.
The worst temptation is to automate the process - eg. "I'll auto-import all my data into organised tables" or "I'll use ML to automatically tag stuff" - that's fine, but the purpose is to help you learn and remember, and that automation will just create even more data for your "to look at later" pile.
I'm having some joy using Obsidian - it's so quick for creating interlinked documents and notes, task lists, etc, and from a technical PoV they're all just plain Markdown documents stored in Dropbox - future-proof and device-proof.
Thanks, you're quite right to challenge that, it's a belief based on past reading and should be backed up.
Like everything we use to numb/escape our own minds, alcohol and all the marketing we're fed, and the examples we're set while growing up, make it easy to rationally think we should cut down but there's no way that message is going to be easily accepted by your subconscious!
Other links: - https://www.oneyearnobeer.com/ - https://thisnakedmind.com/ - https://medium.com/ainyf-alcohol-is-not-your-friend
HTH.
Or accountancy - another old trade with immediate commercial value, though perhaps without as much intellectual property.
The most important thing is committed spend - eg. it's common for Big Corp Inc's infosec team to put you through compliance, potentially asking you to spend $0000's on time and services, without comparing that to the value of the contract you could have with them. You could spend a lot based on zero commitment it you take your eye off this.