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The point seems to be that it’s extremely risky. Your decision to have kids outweighs, in the long run, most any other moral decision you make.
I’m not convinced a decade or so ago this was so different, but let’s say it was. If the norm is different now, then it’s unreasonable to expect dates to behave as if it isn’t. I’m not saying it’s unreasonable to ask for what you want, I just think it’s silly to feel disrespected when someone violates an expectation that’s not been communicated.
> The idea that the whole universe was made just so you could work and die, is born out of a feeble mindset…
Nobody was arguing that, and it baselessly assumes that the universe was made for a purpose.
> If there really is nothing to look forward to, there's no harm in giving this wildly different life-changing thing a try.
Most people make decisions based on things other than what they look forward to. Like just because I’m not looking forward to my day tomorrow doesn’t mean I should set my bed on fire, even though it would make me appreciate getting out of bed more.
As far as I can tell life doesn’t come with a meaning to be discovered.
Elton John improvising on an oven manual is the high bar in my opinion. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8GuI4UUZrmw
“Anakin uses Linux's PR_SET_CHILD_SUBREAPER feature to mark itself as the "child subreaper", which means any descendants that are orphaned get reparented to this process… then periodically polls its children and kills any that have been orphaned to it.”