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goforthbebold··on No I won’t lean in because I stand up
And the answer is 42
goforthbebold··on No I won’t lean in because I stand up
If a man treats me as a sex object in a professional setting, I will correct him to his face, consequences be damned because I am confident to know there will be another opportunity. So while I understand your objection to my focus on confidence, I object to your lack of how much push any one individual can have in this world. I am supporting maximizing human potential and you are confusing that with worrying about what is easy. I am focused on what is possible. You are spreading fear and that is the most dangerous pill anyone can swallow because it paralyzes.
goforthbebold··on No I won’t lean in because I stand up
I value your opinion. I am actually not saying the barriers aren't real. I am saying focusing on them does not usually lead to the solution for those faced with them as I have been. I am the woman who wrote the article. The point is when you focus on them you don't see the exits to the problem. You see barriers. When you start looking on other things you can change you accel. I understand that focusing on those external sources outside of ourselves doesn't usually lead to a change in outcome. Observing them and moving around them, does. So no I won't lean in, because I stand up. I could care less if you have heard of me or my company. I am not going to wait until I have 500 million dollars to speak my mind.
goforthbebold··on No I won’t lean in because I stand up
Ok but lets be real. We encourage men to move fast and break things. We tell them if you want to achieve greatness stop asking for permission. Then we tell women to lean in. Um I will pass on that last one.