HN Meta nonsense: I'm interested to know why you want to know why other people find interesting something you don't find interesting! HN arch comment: Oh, wait. I'm not interested to know.
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HN Meta nonsense: I'm interested to know why you want to know why other people find interesting something you don't find interesting! HN arch comment: Oh, wait. I'm not interested to know.
* If my girlfriend is not gone by the time I arise, I defer these steps until I'm alone. At the same time every morning, I interrupt everything at a pre-determined time to call my child with love and wishes for a good day.
The rules are: Take responsibility for your potential and for your actions. Don't be lazy. Don't steal. When you act wrongly, acknowledge it, stop it, fix it.
I post rarely, sometimes from NYT, and try to contribute articles that are germane, inspiring - not retellings or layman's gee-whiz reporting.
Overall, I don't think this is an important problem for HN - if a problem at all. And of course, we can change it ourselves at any time.
I made games. I didn’t ask for anyone’s permission. If you have the love and the drive, you can walk through that door on your own.
I will say some of my best and most popular/successful work was inspired when someone pissed me right the fuck off. I think I’d be a crappier designer if I were male ... because I would have been exposed to fewer stupid assumptions about who I was and what I could do, which means I would have been less angry and less inspired as a result.
Once again we see that screen size remains a central UI limitation to better UX. Give me a wide printer and a big wall any time!
The web is not some inalienable right handed down from God for the betterment of humanity. It's a clever idea that lots of people find handy. Kleenex and eyeglasses are clever, too. I don't see a movement to free tissue paper.
Why is anyone shocked by the prospect that it may come at a cost, directly or indirectly?
Life's too short, and too beautifully wonderous, to waste fretting about who's greed is good and who's is bad or unfair. Drama, drama.
This is not a "mistake". Why would anyone want to have anything to do with such people, much less be their customer?
This warrants punishment, not forgiveness.
Tamer, you also do a great job of explaining in passionately clear, objective terms, the SOPA agenda, the weaknesses of its assuptions and it's dire consequences.
However, I strongly take issue with your own assumptions about the value of today's internet services.
More » http://caspiandesign.com/2011/12/21/desopa-great-ff-extensio...
In coming to us, asking for help with your problem, you demonstrate strength, in spite of feeling badly.
Since you mentioned thinking of suicide, I must strongly recommend you talk to a mental health professional. If you don't already have an appointment, tell us your city and we'll come up with a resource for finding one in your area. These can narrowly constrain your opportunities. If we know, we can perhaps offer more realistic help.
Do you have: money? car? housing? physical disabilities? Legal problems? (Of course, you're not required or compelled to share any personal details with us.)
Once all that is addressed: You need to focus on success in the place of focusing on failure. You need to see that you can accomplish, yourself, a goal.
Not knowing anything about you and your life, I recommend: Goal: walk for an hour every day - in any number of shorter walks, if you'd like or have to.
Steps:
Preparation: P1. Cancel broadband service at home. P2. Get a small, blank notebook as a daily log.
Daily actions: D1. Go for a walk. Out the door, or a bus or car ride away. Mall, abandoned train tracks, park, city streets, airport, your driveway - doesn't matter particularly. D2. Immediately after your walk, log your walk: date and time. D3. Shower, shave, dress neatly. No excuses on this one. D4. Go to a busy place for an hour. Bring pad and pen. No phone or computer allowed. D5. Immediately after your visit there, log it: date, time and place.
Follow-up: F1. Repeat this everyday this week. F2. Next Monday, check back with one/all of us.
Hint: The goal is accomplishing the action, not having a feeling ("Happy!" "Fulfilled").
I look forward to hearing from you.
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