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I have moved on to other things since, but I miss it's simplicity and the general "it just works" aspect of the framework.
Same thing happened to me. Work was the first place where I felt I actually belonged and knew my own worth. It can be very intoxicating.
I feel much better today than a year ago, where I was hangover most of the day
I think this alone is an incredible opportunity that not many people get in their lives. IMO, you have the rest of your life to focus on your career. And is much better to spend these couple of recession/stagnation years in uni instead of in the professional world.
I'm part of the interview process for a role we're trying to fill, and it's 100% like you describe it. I lost count of how many people we interviewed already (and mind you, we're not looking for anything out of the ordinary).
I completely agree. However, at my current job, referring someone for an open position just means throwing their CV in the mix along with everyone else's. There is no way to bypass even a single step in the weeks-long hiring process. And I suspect this is slowly becoming the norm.
It takes a lot of time to recover from burnout, but it's definitely doable.
For all the talk about "no silver bullet", there's a staggering amount of folks who keep falling for it.
Absolutely. I was on the wrong side of such a dynamic until recently, by the end of it (thankfully I switched teams) it was a straight up bullying situation. And much like an abusive romantic relationship, it escalated slowly in a way that was difficult to notice. My point is, yes, do whatever you can to stay away from these kind of people.
Is it possible that there's not too much work to do? In my experience, this happens when the reviewer has too much time on their hands. Parkinson's law comes to mind.
I would say, ask yourself why do yo need to compare yourself with anyone? By your own account you do very interesting work, why is that not enough? Start from there.