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You absolutely should not stay where you are. You are also extremely unlikely to be able to make any positive changes there, the company product and needs “are what they are.”
My parents had a laser printer for their business. I realized that it had a very high DPI and also very little ink bleed. I started printing whole books I downloaded at the smallest font size that I could managed to still read, just a few point. I removed line breaks and printed out whole books on a page or two. I found it incredible how much tiny text I could fit on a page.
In class I would read with a little half folded sheet of paper hidden in a notebook. Sci-fi, Russian lit, biographies, classics. I was never caught, but it’s bizarre to think back that I was reading Crime and Punishment while the rest of the class was learning fake American history propaganda.
Honestly, I think the very concept is broken from the start. Neurotypical people do not need to use online dating or hookup apps. In fact, it robs much of the fun out of the experience. Meeting people in person, seeing how they interact with you, with friends, with others, how well they pick up on signals and how they make you feel and letting that pheromonal magic work is how our species has been doing these things from the start.
The normies should polish back up their social graces and head back to the bar and leave the online dating for the folks for whom it really is the best option. If we rob the apps of their mass market appeal, the profit model can collapse and online dating can go back to the niche it belongs in.
Another variation of this seems to be the “thought loop” that agents such as Devin and AutoGPT use.
For example, if a major event or discovery happened, the model would know about it once a critical mass of news stories and discussions had been generated online. You’d probably be looking at a few days before the content accumulated to the point where it would affect the model weights, which encode all human knowledge ever digitized, so some single news article in a training set of trillions of tokens is not enough.
If you want a long term memory of user interactions, long context and RAG seems to do the job nicely as a single fact can be pulled out of a context length of millions of tokens.
Basically pot makes you less self-aware.
It would also be reasonable to rename an aircraft class if it was significantly different from other aircraft. For example, an electric, vertical takeoff fixed wing aircraft that doesn’t require a pilot could be reasonably different from airplanes and helicopters to warrant a new name.
My partner and I enjoy our hobbies with groups of people when we are there. It’s not that different than being a snowbird. The main difference is that in addition to home base time, we also spend 4 months a year traveling, sometimes on our own, sometimes with our people.
Utopian or dystopian, this is exactly the future that Apple, Meta and NeuraLink are chasing.
Maybe in a few versions they will have something that could sell a billion units, but they have a lot of work to do to get there.
And to dump some of the employees on image and text generators off whatever self driving computer vision work they were presumably doing before? Interesting choice.
I did make a choice, and it didn’t involve all that much luck beyond what everyone here has, a lucky break in a good career and a high income birth country. Actually there was bad luck, my partner and I were laid off at the same time. Sometimes the good comes from the bad.
I don’t think I am better or worse, but I do push myself always to experience new things. It’s hard to imagine my life any other way, but then lots of people are deeply passionate about things that I’m not going to understand and vice versa.
I think it’s interesting that you call not having children a selfish act. Having biological children always struck me as very egocentric. For me I have no choice. I am gay and our families live in places where one day in the not too distant future LGBTQ couples could have their children taken away. Maybe that would have been a good road to walk down, but it was not my road to take.
It’s also interesting what you project onto me around elder care. What I see is that most people I know live far from their parents and families. They spend their whole professional lives in major cities and visit home maybe 2 weeks a year. That pattern of life doesn’t make sense to me. I love my family and want the flexibility to see them often. If they needed money or needed care, I would give it to them, but they have no need. Besides spending some of the year near them, I know that I inspired them to travel more and take bigger risks in their retirement. I know I have helped enrich their lives. We will go on a few trips together this year and I never have to decline an invite because of not enough PTO.
If there’s something about your life you feel trapped in and unhappy with, try to change it!
I had some friends living interesting lives when I was settled. Sailing the globe, doing seasonal work in the arctic and backcountry skiing mountains with no name. Doing field work in the African bush. I kept thinking about them and wondering how I could be them, like the little scratch on the roof of your mouth that would heal if only you could stop tonguing it.
I recall that movie seemed cute but probably technologically impossible. Now it’s reality for many users of AI girlfriends.