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this is a fine line though. If you have some level of social anxiety, avoiding social contact is about the worst you can do for it. It's allowing the fear to control you. A better solution is to work your way through the social anxeity, learning organic ways to "grease the gears" and make situations pleasant to both parties.
I had to learn this in my late teens/early 20s. I was withdrawing more and more, stone-faced all the time in public places such as the grocery store. I'd park behind the store just so I didn't have the hassle of interactions in the parking lot. That's letting anxiety reign over you. Cognitive distortions [1] can send you on a downward trajectory where avoidance is the norm and you to go greater and more extreme lengths to mitigate the "problem". I learned that a smile, saying "hi, how are you?" or "excuse me" seem to make most interactions at least 50 "percent" less uncomfortable compared to unemotional silence, which I've seen in psychology books as a sign of hostility.
Now, if you are autistic and have something inhibiting your ability to understand social cues, then "just facing it" wont work, but even people on the spectrum can learn to improve their situation through a skilled therapist.
They were "put out" for the exact value of the items he stole. Whether the theft results in a direct detriment to the victim is irrelevant.
Allow me to play Freud here for a moment. Perhaps that question more points to anxieties about not knowing 100% of the material (which, I think we can both agree is ok. nobody retains 100%. But the student may not realize that).
So maybe they ask that question seeking approval, hoping to hear "No, thats an advanced concept for advanced students wanting to learn {special advanced concept}". Obviously thats not the case, but I could see a student asking that to soothe their worries that they understand other things, but not the difficult concept.
I completely disagree. I'm an experienced dev from C++ learning Android/Java dev. Literally 90% of what I need is on SO (the rest usually from mkyong), thanks to google some of the answers even bubble up to the search page so I dont even have to click on them. I would be much worse off without SO.
Boost has stackful coroutines:
http://www.boost.org/doc/libs/1_63_0/libs/coroutine2/doc/htm...
If you dont need the extra capacity or speed that USB or optical offers you, don't upgrade. I mean this specifically for infrastructure-size projects where the "thing" / entity that is controlled costs multiple orders of magnitude more than the computer system controlling it. Say I have a hydro-electric dam, or any kind of power plant (not just nuke), or train switch controller, submarine, aircraft carrier, etc. Stuff that can't break. Its just cheaper and safer to keep using the same tech, keep replacing known-working parts, than it is to risk updating the system to "stay current", and risk a costly outage (or some kind of catastrophe, even if theres only a 10^-7 chance of it happening). I dont blame them one bit.
I dont think it "works" though. paypal can withdraw funds from your linked bank accounts too. I think you would need to create an LLC , open a bank acct under that LLC, then sweep funds out of that LLC account to be "safe".
And the higher the potency, the easier it becomes to smuggle. Contrast marijuana, where they have to haul the stuff over by the bale, vs even one brick of super potent opioid which could supply half the country for a couple days.
If we took even 1% of the total we spend prosecuting addicts and used it internationally, we could probably put a much more severe dent in supply. We already invaded Afghanistan, but in many cases helped the farmers instead of shut them down (this is a complex issue, opium is a much more valuable crop than food - but its a problem money can solve ). We could work with other countries to disincentivize coca production (again - the farmers that grow it can choose coca or bananas, guess which is worth more ?)
There are so many other ways to shut down the drug war, but the first place is to stop prosecuting people for possession.
Edit: was incorrect about what I said below. Leaving it for posterity
It's important to remember that the final surface - the one that actually reflects photons - is created chemically by releasing a gas inside a vacuum that very evenly coats the surface with reflective metal atoms. I'd wager that process fills in the ~last nanometers~ or so of imperfections. Or at least averages them out enough to not affect the optical performance.