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dhfbshfbu4u3··on Children need risk, fear, and excitement in play
Sure, but check back in on them in 30 years and see how well their bodies work. Tradework pays very well these days but you can’t avoid the physical toll.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Children need risk, fear, and excitement in play
Sure. The typical path I see is that kids fail to lock in with a high level state school and either need to go private (assuming they get in) or out of state (which will welcome you because you’re paying 50% more). This happened with one of my kids and it has cost me upwards of $60-70K at a minimum to go out of state.

Another path I see are kids who just opt out entirely. They go to that 5th or 6th tier school and are totally unmotivated. This doesn’t hit them early but it will have a long term impact on job prospects and their career arc. This one is actually becoming more common from what I hear.

To me, the real disconnect is happening in high school here in the US where we are still educating kids like it is 1950 (or 1850). Teachers are overworked and underpaid, and the administration is apathetic. All of that can easily combine for a couple of poor grades or missed expectations in extracurricular activities which in turn cut your opportunities when you apply for college. Sounds extreme but that is how it is today and it is why so many parents are overprotective to the point of being manic.

dhfbshfbu4u3··on Children need risk, fear, and excitement in play
30+ years ago, when I was just starting out, I thought the way you did. The environment was different too. You could just be a good programmer and pretty much write your own ticket.

A lot of things have changed since then. Requirements and competition for positions have increased exponentially just as salaries have skyrocketed in the more technical fields. No surprise there, but that competitive pedigree system has filtered all the way down to primary and secondary education (to say nothing of college systems).

So it is the end of the world? No. But it will cost you tens of thousands of dollars in the near term and perhaps hundreds of thousands of dollars over a lifetime in lost potential earnings. Slipping out of the higher level schools can also make it extremely difficult to get into specific companies.

As for entrepreneurship, that’s also subject to the same issues. Sure, anyone can start a company if they want, but if you want to fund that company the path is much easier if you went to Stanford than say Oklahoma State.

dhfbshfbu4u3··on Children need risk, fear, and excitement in play
Pretty much. We sought out a balance and by and large our kids are happier than their peers. However, they also paid the price when it came to school choice, scholarships, and the downstream opportunities that flow from the relentless pursuit of top honors. It is insane.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Children need risk, fear, and excitement in play
Sure. The main thing is getting into college. In recent years, it has become incredibly competitive. Kids with SATs above say 1525 with above 4.0GPA and plenty of APs are ending up in their 5th, 6th, 7th, and 8th choice schools. There is very low margin for error and the actual costs can be quite significant when you take into account the slip in position.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Children need risk, fear, and excitement in play
I grew up in the 70s and we spent most of our time outside because we weren’t allowed inside or our parents were at work. Everything was unsupervised and bit like Lord of the Flies, but we survived. I have a lot of memories of riding my bike, alone, pretty much anywhere I wanted in the city.

Seems great, and I think most of us enjoyed it, but the kids who really got ahead in life stayed inside studying.

Fast forward several decades, I raised some kids of my own and by and large we let them have a lot of a fun. That said, the stakes are so much higher these days that it is impractical to give kids total freedom. The long-term costs and lost opportunity is just way too high.

dhfbshfbu4u3··on Sports Illustrated implosion shows the ugly, ongoing collapse of U.S. journalism
Pretty sure that every time this comment gets downvoted, a trust fund brunchlord gets their options poached.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on The Death of a Relic Hunter
Interesting side story about Bill “helping” a friend who had his life completely stolen back in 2012. So strange the thieves knew just where to look for things: https://www.ajc.com/news/local/atlanta-man-struggles-continu...
dhfbshfbu4u3··on AI Is a Terrifying Purveyor of Bullshit. Next Up: Fake Science
Aschwanden is a fairly serious journalist, but the green ChatGPT 3.5 icon in the Nate Silver example isn’t doing her any favors.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on What a third world war would mean for investors
Think of the trust fund children.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Meta is banning people from advertising after running ads for Python and Pandas
Oh indeed. Some activists do this already and it is very painful for advertisers who get hit this way.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Meta is banning people from advertising after running ads for Python and Pandas
Both companies are pulling way back on targeting categories and have been for a couple years now. Most of it rolls up under privacy these days but when they started they were pretty coy about it. Eventually, they'll exit entirely.

You can see this in the ad products they are both pushing: Advantage+ on the Meta side and PerformanceMax at Google. Marketers ability to target with these ad products is severely curtailed. They are opaque black boxes at best.

dhfbshfbu4u3··on Meta is banning people from advertising after running ads for Python and Pandas
Not surprised by this at all. “Animal trading” is such a touchy category within Meta. Once you get flagged for this, you can basically kiss your account goodbye. It is impossible to get support, even in cases like this where it clearly has nothing to do with animals. Meta simply will not touch it. There are other categories like this too. Ultimately it is easier/safer for Meta to just wholesale ban any use of terms even if it seems really stupid. This will only continue as Meta continues its exit from detailed ad targeting. Google is doing the same thing too.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Tech CEO sentenced to 5 years in IP address scheme
Case History: https://www.courtlistener.com/docket/15573090/united-states-...

The delays were partially due to COVID then later he was able to get it caught up with SCOTUS review of criteria for denaturalization.

But geez his backstory is wild. Iranian born, escaped with parents to Dubai. Started his business in his bedroom at 16. Bought quite a rock for his sweetie back in 2012 (https://youtu.be/FhPiC7zC7wA). She divorced him after everything came undone. Apparently they have a lot of stuff in storage in London. Amazing what you can find in 15 minutes with google.

dhfbshfbu4u3··on Paper posits ultradense asteroid 33 Polyhymnia has transuranic elements
Nice. A Dra'Azon dead world in our own backyard.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Blackmagic Camera for iPhone
Because once upon a time people made software instead of training models and some of those people still like to see what’s going on in the world of actual software development.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Open-source could finally get the world’s microscopes speaking the same language
Why bother? Someone will come up with a model that will just suck it all up and convert it automatically... and by someone I mean some sufficiently motivated LLM.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Dating the Arrival of Modern Humans in Asia
Vishnu comes in the form that is needed most and sometimes that is radiometric dating.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Amid Twitter Chaos, Japanese Illustrators Flock to Weibo
Sure, but I’m talking about behind the scenes stuff that product marketing stuffed into the bloatware.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Amid Twitter Chaos, Japanese Illustrators Flock to Weibo
Interesting. My flame bait noise has dropped to near zero, but then my engagement also ticked up (more posting). I have a sense that this activity may have moved the needle a bit too.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Amid Twitter Chaos, Japanese Illustrators Flock to Weibo
Fwiw, I found that zero engagement led to a really bad experience. As soon as I began contributing content on a couple of specific topics, the TL skewed hard towards things I actually liked.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Amid Twitter Chaos, Japanese Illustrators Flock to Weibo
The ads have gotten bad, that’s for sure. But then again, they have on every platform. Apple (and by extension GDPR) won the privacy wars, but the cost is that only the worst advertisers live on.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Amid Twitter Chaos, Japanese Illustrators Flock to Weibo
Interesting. I’ve literally never had a problem in 16 years.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Amid Twitter Chaos, Japanese Illustrators Flock to Weibo
Because aside from large brands executing eyeball campaigns most DTC companies are gone from the ecosystem. Loss of tracking data killed the ROI and all that’s left are casinos and absolute bullshit.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Amid Twitter Chaos, Japanese Illustrators Flock to Weibo
That’s a fair assessment. He never really understood it, but thought he did. Got hold of it and entered the finding out stage of the deal.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on Amid Twitter Chaos, Japanese Illustrators Flock to Weibo
I’ve been on Twitter for 16 years now. I’m not a fan of Elon, but I have to admit my experience on the platform is better than it has been in years.

For example, muted terms stay muted and the “For you” TL is actually relevant. I think these gains are structural improvements gained by slimming down and removing advertiser-driven garbage.

Seems pretty good for a first step but the core problems moderation and curation remain. I’m not sure I see a good path forward on these points given the current posture of the company. That’s probably why exodus events like this one will continue to build over time.

dhfbshfbu4u3··on Google search's death by a thousand cuts
From an DTC advertiser’s perspective, Google’s made so many hostile decisions of late: selling remnant space through Performance Max, ditching UA for GA4 without porting data, releasing Bard… Just failure after failure while the end consumer search experience just goes down the tubes.

Lots of smart people making very bad products that get in the way of other smart people making good products. It’s shocking to look at the wreckage of their decades of poor decision-making.

dhfbshfbu4u3··on GirlfriendGPT – OSS AI Companion
That's probably where all of this is going.
dhfbshfbu4u3··on The EU AI act is coming, this time for real probably
What are the people “winning” in this case?
dhfbshfbu4u3··on GirlfriendGPT – OSS AI Companion
Haven’t we retreated from life enough? AI companions are just a fancy way of pretending you’re not alone.
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