Really this would have been great to know from my high school advisor to be able to convince my parents to let me consider other types of universities.
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Really this would have been great to know from my high school advisor to be able to convince my parents to let me consider other types of universities.
Granted I should have went to a community college to get my basic classes sorted out.
But being a first generation immigrant and the first to go to college I had little guidance and a high pressure to appease my parents.
At the same time they could not make any payments on my behalf but also did not allow me to go to community college either.
Some would say I should have been smarter, but my parents were sold the "American Dream",
I was forced to foot the bill :)
Went in state,
lived at home (commuted 2-2.5~ hours twice a day)
lived cheap (no real spending outside of school bills)
Had scholarships which knocked off 50% of the sticker price.
After all that, and the high interest rates at the time on my initial loans it was north of 200k.
My parents helped with food and rent (living at home) but everything else I took a loan off.
I considered my loans heavily predatory and wish I could have done things differently.
But I fully agree with what you've said and I will keep it in mind moving forward.
I've been jumping from small pond to small pond until now.
This large company's project is outsourced to over 30+ people where none of the devs have even touched React and come from an Enterprise Java background. It's 6+ months and late, when really the product would take a team of about 8 to do in 4 months. I come in and suddenly I'm tech lead managing and mentoring others.
I understand even this post feels like I'm unappreciative but it wasn't until two months ago that I had a teammate I could feel happy working with rather than me mentoring them.
I don't consider myself great or a genius, but this pain of knowing you can only teach yourself so much has bothered me since my first job.
Hence, how does one find a mentor?
So far every job I've joined since finishing school in 2012 I've been the "smartest person in the room". It's been incredibly frustrating to not have peers to learn from technically.
It was so bad that I left my city (Recruiters and the jobs felt very toxic to me) and became an expat, started self learning what I wanted until I could consult enough to sustain myself.
Now I joined a large company for a large project in asia and I'm STILL missing people I can learn from.
I'm reaching my 30's, and have only worked at small to medium places with near zero mentorship.
Just FYI!
I saw a site that highlighted the official audiobook/ebook of "The Lean Startup" on one page. I love this as a generic solution.
When I entered the workforce, at first I noticed I couldn't remember names at all, I would have to either concentrate on the name while ignoring the conversation in front of me, or I pay attention to the conversation but have an almost certain chance I will forget the name.
I've noticed in general that I had poor short term memory, but I never realised this issue when I was in college.
The worst part was not being able to remember what tasks I accomplished just a few hours before at work, boy that always made me feel good.
It's been driving me nuts for years, I'm unsure how much I have recovered if at all.
Went from no network and no experience consulting / selling to being able to support myself in Tokyo without needing savings.
Changed my image and gained a lot of confidence and soft skills.
Met many people I otherwise would not have.
Grew my view of the world, myself and life in general.
My memory is poor and seems to only get worse and I'm not even in my 30s yet.
It wasn't all pretty but I have grown and challenged myself in many ways that I otherwise would not have been able to!
I'd be glad to discuss with anyone interested in doing the same either over a Tokyo beer or email (:
I've seen the work culture (non programming) in both and as far as my friends go.. I have a VERY difficult time seeing my korean friends vs my tokyo friends.
As far as compensation, I'm not sure about Seoul but Tokyo wages for software is very low I've found.
I had a similar experience looking for my first job in Chicago a few years back.
I met with a fairly large general recruiting firm in the area just so they could feel me out.
I named my expectation of 50-60k to which the recruiter replied.
"You know... when I moved to Chicago I was living on 18k"
Not exactly the type of response I expected.
'From 2007 on, Hotz became a coding vagabond. He briefly attended Rochester Institute of Technology, did a couple five-month internships at Google, worked at SpaceX for four months, then at Facebook for eight. The jobs left him unsatisfied and depressed. At Google, he found very smart developers who were often assigned mundane tasks like fixing bugs in a Web browser; at Facebook, brainy coders toiled away trying to figure out how to make users click on ads. “It scares me what Facebook is doing with AI,” Hotz says. “They’re using machine-learning techniques to coax people into spending more time on Facebook."' http://www.bloomberg.com/features/2015-george-hotz-self-driv...
Seems to be generated on a previous system failure.
That's wild, is there really such a low expectation of crime over there?