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However, this article assumes that the outcome of the election proves that one strategy is better than another. Is this true? If true, how much better is it? People vote for candidates and email campaigns are one part of the whole campaign machine. I'm not saying that the article is wrong, but it is hard to draw conclusions from it without knowing more information.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=c...
which brought on at least one parody I've seen:
I quit my job in April 2012 to pick up web development. The HN community has been great for learning and startup inspiration, so I figure its time to share what I've been working on.
Here's what one could call my first real web app. Look forward to your feedback!
I also wrote up a blog post introducing the site a little here:
First, self improvement is a broad area that covers many topics. How can the author discuss one topic, make a vague claim, and then dismiss the whole area?
Second, things in life are rarely black and white. Saying 'forget self improvement' is like saying 'self improvement is the most important thing in the world'. Both stick to one end of the spectrum. What is right probably lies somewhere in the middle of this spectrum, and changes depending upon the person.
This is why people often tell founders to target a niche you understand.
I'm sure the problem goes deep and has multiple layers, but it seems a major factor is that you hardly know anyone and probably feel disconnected from society. I used to be shy also, but for different reasons (I stuttered pretty badly when I as young). I can say for certain that opening up and truly connecting with people makes a big difference in life satisfaction.
If you haven't read it, a good starting point is Dale Carnegie's classic 'How to Win Friends & Influence People".
Beyond that, take small steps to connect with people. Here is a first big step IMHO: start smiling more and projecting happiness. It attracts people to you. Even more, psychologists have found reason to believe the act of physically smiling improves your mood. Fake it til you make it.
Here are a few others: start making eye contact with people on the street, smile at people on the street, start saying hi to random people (the waitress, the person working the cash register, co workers), make random small talk with strangers (about anything! you have nothing to lose really), etc.
All the small steps will slowly add up, and over time, you will find yourself connecting better with people, making more friends, etc.
Good luck!
"When you're out there partying and wussing around, someone out there, at the same time, is working hard. Someone is getting smarter, and someone is winning. Just remember that."
Anyone privy to this information and willing to share?
This seems to be the most important thing here. In any community, you have the chance to play an active role. If you stay and do good, you help it in your own way. If you jump ship, you leave the community with one less person that cares.
To get anything done, we need to (1) have the desire, (2) turn this desire into action, and (3) continue the action and fight through barriers until we achieve what we want. "Just do it" works well as a mantra to turn the desire into action.
However, after this step, there is a whole lot more. How much natural ability do you have? How hard are you working? How much competition is there in the area? Are there political, legal, or other barriers in the way? There are many factors determining how far you will go. But, getting started is better than not getting started at all. This is an important step that is often not taken.
A more accurate way to put is is that "just do it" is necessary, but not sufficient.
I should say that I just wrote a blog post in the "just do it" camp so it may skew my views:
http://alexshye.wordpress.com/2012/07/10/the-most-important-...
This particular lesson is simple in theory, but can be very difficult in practice.
I can already tell that the motivation/drive part is one of the larger challenges. My approach to it so far is to work on something I know I can passionate about for years. But who knows? It has only been a few months. When I've gotten further into this entrepreneurship thing, I'll probably write a post on how I've succeeded/or failed at that challenge.