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Two high‑school quarterbacks, decades apart, met the same fate. Jay Kutner, 18, Holy Trinity (NY), suffered a broken neck during a scrimmage in 1972 on a routine play. He became paralyzed, eventually passing away months later. His teammates dedicated their season to him and won a game he’d always meant to play in. His memory endured through field dedications and the stories of classmates and family.
Caden Tellier, 16, Morgan Academy (AL), collapsed during a game in August 2024 after being tackled. He fell ill, was hospitalized, declared brain‑dead, and donated his organs per his wishes. His school and community held a revival and memorials. Coaches, teammates, and townspeople gathered in grief and reflection .
The article draws parallels across time and place: both boys were promising athletes, kind leaders, beloved in their schools. Each death sent ripples through their communities, triggering reflections on football’s dangers and the weight of memory. Their stories affirm that some lives, however brief, outlast time itself ([espn.com][2]).
How did you get them off?
“It's just tons of sad people.” - this makes you sound like you have the emotional acuity of a 4 year old. You can fix that, but you can’t do it sitting in front of your computer.
My wife and I make our kids do uncomfortable things because that’s what separates children from adults. An example, and not even the hardest one: Yesterday we were vacationing at the beach and we got a call from the dog boarding facility keeping our 8 year old dog, she was having seizures and had to be taken to an animal hospital. We drove 3 hours to see her. There was lots of crying, in front of everyone - who gives a shit. We had to have her euthanized. The 4 of us stayed with her for the entire process. We could have just told them to put her down over the phone and continued our vacation, or we could have left the room as they ended her life. She wasn’t conscious and we have no way of knowing if she was aware of our presence, but if something/someone makes an impact on your life, learn to be a little unselfish and be present. It hurts, but just because something hurts doesn’t mean we should shy away from doing it.
Learning to steel yourself is an important life skill. Obviously a dog is not a human, but the parallels are there - as humans we have honored the end of a impactful life throughout our history.
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You've just described a match made in hell. DevOps - let's overcomplicate things (I'm looking at you K8s) and Product - they create pretty screenshots and flows but not actually think about the product as a system (or set of systems.)
Because right now AI companies are losing their asses - it costs significantly more than what they are charging.