If you don't wantto have your car stolen it's common sense to not own a car. If you don't want your money to be stolen it's common sense to be broke. If you don't want your kids to be kidnapped it's common sense to remain childless. If you don't want to be murdered it's common sense to commit suicide.

Of course people should be aware of risks and manage them appropriately, but it's also possible to not blame them for the abuse of others.