Second of all, as other commenters have noted, you're blaming the victim - the classic "if you don't want to get raped, don't look sexy".
Of course people should be aware of risks and manage them appropriately, but it's also possible to not blame them for the abuse of others.
I really dislike this line of thought, because I think it boils the issue down to black and white, all or nothing. "... it's common sense to commit suicide" makes no sense, of course, but how about "... it's common sense not to walk alone at night in a high-crime area"?
I don't believe for a second that she "deserved what she got". But I don't think "do not put naked pictures on the internet" is bad advice either, specially considering the (very) large number of cases in which women's pictures were stolen.
Is there really no possibility for a middle ground?
There's a time and place for such advice, and this isn't it, in my opinion.
Given your stance on this, you obviously would have no issue with your full internet browsing history being made public and associated with your real name, the one by which your partner / current flirt / potential employer knows you and might find you, right? I mean, if you didn't want people to know that you're into midget goat porn, you'd just not browse for it, correct?
So she was too dumb, and she got what was coming?
Or even worse, with the "if you don't want people to look at them" hint, perhaps she wanted this. Maybe deep down. Subconsciously or something.
That's a particularly classy form of victim blaming that. Doubly so since you created an account on HN specifically to post it.
Or, as the bible puts it "Women should be modest in their appearance. They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves"|
No, you shouldn't blame the victim, we should be working against the sexist dynamics in society.