As if every alternative road has to be imagined as a less satisfying road to validate their own chosen path.
As if the diversity and multiplication of "search paths" through "reality space" is somehow sad or worse or less moral or less virtuous.
Which is absurd of course.
As for me, sometimes I take bad paths just for fun because I'm more curious than cautious.
"This is probably terrible, let's check it out."
And boy is it fun for those of use who like to explore the edges, and I like to imagine that all those taking more traveled paths are also enjoying themselves and the life they have!
Reflective or not, it seems really personal and unfair to swing at a stranger like that. For all he knows, @fogus has the same number of partners and kids as he does, or is just as happy with whatever way their life is organized. I don’t think it’s fair to come at @fogus as “insecure” for reacting to derogatory assumptions.
Maybe everyone else here knows stuff I don’t about @fogus’ life, but I just read somebody being generous enough to share their internal thinking in public and, in exchange, getting shit on for no reason.
And as to gp—I agree the intention seems thoughtful and self-reflective; thank you for sharing those sentiments. I’m glad you’ve found happiness and fulfillment, and I think your point would stand just as strong without swinging at a stranger.