>When you hear someone say, "sounds like you had a bad experience there friend, maybe you should try again and do something different," admit that yes, you got taken at a casino, and the different thing to do is to not spend your time in casinos.
And also those that say "I've met my wonderful wife/husband in Tinder, maybe you should keep trying" and most of those cases (in my personal experience) date back to 2016 and before. When there weren't so many people just trying to get followers, bots, scammers, etc. etc. Besides survivorship bias, of course.