There's also a lot of selfish, and "I want to win" or "I want my sport team to win", and I don't really want to have children (except I want my sport team to win), or pay for anything, or build any infrastructure, or let the other team accomplish anything, cause that's not winning existence. I don't really want to live here, I want to win (and go to the next level). The UK is stilll talking about "leveling up" this and that. So existence has become this terrible place where a lot of people mostly fantasize about existing anywhere else. Cause you can't leave, but you can't stay here.
In a horrible Machiavellian interpretation, I want to score a lot, and keep other people from scoring (gender interactions also obviously have a "scoring" idea).
I think a lot of people are choosing not to have kids mainly for 2 reasons: it is getting extremely expensive to raise a child, and the uncertainty of the next 20-40 years makes people hesitant to put their kids into that environment.
Social and economic welfare is not a zero sum game, I don’t need to ruin the lives of all of my competitors in order to win, that would actually be disastrous.
[1] https://www.commondreams.org/views/2022/03/16/lets-just-say-...
[2] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=De0pH_XMUSA
[3] https://archive.org/details/jeffrey-epstein-39s-little-black...
[4] https://www.harvardmagazine.com/2021/10/harvard-endowment-su...
[5] https://www.thecrimson.com/article/2023/9/25/pierson-sulliva...
[6] https://finfacts.ie/cmsb/uploads/thumb/us_productivity_pay_g...
[7] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S00221...
[8] https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/07/19/what-the-...
The whole notion that "boomers" are some unnatural microcosm of what humans have been doing for thousands of years is laughable. I always ask my fellow millennials, what are you doing to avoid having our grandchildren call us a selective cohort of do-nothings & non-tree/shade planters?