There's also a lot of selfish, and "I want to win" or "I want my sport team to win", and I don't really want to have children (except I want my sport team to win), or pay for anything, or build any infrastructure, or let the other team accomplish anything, cause that's not winning existence. I don't really want to live here, I want to win (and go to the next level). The UK is stilll talking about "leveling up" this and that. So existence has become this terrible place where a lot of people mostly fantasize about existing anywhere else. Cause you can't leave, but you can't stay here.
In a horrible Machiavellian interpretation, I want to score a lot, and keep other people from scoring (gender interactions also obviously have a "scoring" idea).
I think a lot of people are choosing not to have kids mainly for 2 reasons: it is getting extremely expensive to raise a child, and the uncertainty of the next 20-40 years makes people hesitant to put their kids into that environment.
Social and economic welfare is not a zero sum game, I don’t need to ruin the lives of all of my competitors in order to win, that would actually be disastrous.
[1] https://www.commondreams.org/views/2022/03/16/lets-just-say-...
[2] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=De0pH_XMUSA
[3] https://archive.org/details/jeffrey-epstein-39s-little-black...
[4] https://www.harvardmagazine.com/2021/10/harvard-endowment-su...
[5] https://www.thecrimson.com/article/2023/9/25/pierson-sulliva...
[6] https://finfacts.ie/cmsb/uploads/thumb/us_productivity_pay_g...
[7] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S00221...
[8] https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/07/19/what-the-...
The whole notion that "boomers" are some unnatural microcosm of what humans have been doing for thousands of years is laughable. I always ask my fellow millennials, what are you doing to avoid having our grandchildren call us a selective cohort of do-nothings & non-tree/shade planters?
Like a parent caring for a child with a limited world view and not yet emotionally mature, instead of being resentful about the situation [1] (which would be totally fair, there is a lot of history and metaphorical debt to resent), we can work towards fixing it with policy that benefits the Boomers who are left (~2M of 55+ cohort dies every year, and only a fraction of seniors are unhoused) but will provide benefit for the next cohort to pass through that age bracket. It'll be costly, but it always is because we're irresponsible collectively more often than not and kick the can economically into the future. We might as well spend on durable infrastructure if we're going to spend.
TLDR Build affordable non market senior housing in locations that won't cause auto dependency, build with a 100 year lifetime for structures, put Boomers there until they die, wash and repeat with the next wave of destitute or near poverty seniors.
[1] "I can't afford to hate people. I don't have that kind of time." -- Bob Ross
(have several extended family members in senior housing across various states)
As a member of Walk Bike Berkeley and Berkeley Neighbors for Housing and Climate Action I go to war every week, against Boomers, for the exact policies that will benefit them: more housing, better transit and walking facilities. And every week they show up to denounce those policies using their tired Boomer memes. Building housing is "trickle-down economics". A street that's suitable for all ages and all modes is "radical bike lobby". Both of these organizations are full of hundreds of younger people dedicated to saving Boomers from themselves.
I'm also way past the point where I will tolerate someone saying, "I feel ..." in these discussions. Here is the data, own your own feelings, we're moving on. Appreciate your efforts where you are with what you have. We just need more of us.
I know you're being sarcastic, but my point is that the boomer everyone hates seems to be an elusive thing to me. I don't think a generation of mostly working class people orchestrated an economic downturn for their own benefit. I think we'd all do the same thing were we to have the same opportunities.
A lot of obvious priorities today were likely non-obvious before, too.
There's immense risk in assuming people are stupid. In identifying their stupidity, you're likely imagining your own knowledge or intelligence. There's a very good chance that it's all illusory or at least very incomplete. Also, consider that when you analyze another person's failure and find solutions, it doesn't mean you wouldn't have failed in the same way they did under the same circumstances.
I know where I live a lot of bad decisions were made around resource extraction for example. Logging was booming and many people became quite wealthy from it. You could earn enough to buy a home and pay it off in ten years, sometimes less! That's crazy today. And we say, man, those idiots, how could they not know logging would collapse? How could they not know it would harm the environment so much? They obviously didn't care, they just wanted money for themselves. I was one of those people.
But then I dug into the research and history of the industry, only to discover that concerns around monoculture forestry, forest hydrology, watershed preservation, and the myriad other concerns are actually fairly recent. The best early work I could find on monoculture forestry in coniferous forests was from the 80s; by that point it was way too late. We're already reaping what that sewed. Modern forestry practices are informed by this research though, and our practices are actually far better than they were. As for hydrology, I found some work that would be considered high quality and relevant today, but it too was from the late 80s. Prior to that, we simply didn't know with certainty that cutting swaths of forests would impact the local climate in the way it does, or that there would be broad repercussions for biodiversity, river morphology (this research is particularly recent).
(edit: I don't mean to say no one could see any issues with it; there was clearly concern and that's why there was research into the matter. What I mean is that the data wasn't compelling or commonplace such that people could look at forestry and say with certainty what the outcomes would be. We've continued to do the same thing with agriculture; even today we seem to eternally hope the consequences of the pressure we put on our ecosystems won't cause too much damage to keep carrying on... But we know it's causing damage nonetheless. It'll take more data and more damage before people stop and say shit, I guess we better slow down!)
So maybe the best question we can ask ourselves is not what the "boomers" did wrong, but what are we doing wrong today? How are we letting down our future children and grand children? What can we do to be more cautious, and what can we do to buffer them from our mistakes?
There's far too much effort put into blaming rather than living our values and making things better.
Phew, what a vent.