For now I think only a small percentage of men and women will choose to opt out this way. Similar to how most people prefer a physical book over ebook, digital love will not be the preference.
> Possible answer to the Fermi paradox: the intelligent life self destructs.
Although if robotic AI girlfriends become more real than real by using various kinds of supernormal stimuli [1], to the point where actual humans look fake, I can see this happening.
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supernormal_stimulus
> It is possible to create artificial bird eggs which certain birds will prefer over their own eggs