This is where I'm at now.
Decades ago, I was an "only spaces, no tabs" guy. Still am to an extent. But what made me more open was realizing it wasn't spaces or tabs specifically that mattered, only that code is readable, and consistently formatted code is more readable. Seeing things like `gofmt`, which mix tabs and spaces, and comes with the language? Your debate about spaces versus tabs is over, now we can get back to tackling real problems, and your code will be rejected at CI if it isn't run through the standard formatter. Same thing with `black` for Python.
Above all else, be consistent. I can understand hate for "standard" language libraries that have functions with wildly different naming schemes or input and output arguments that aren't consistent - those should DIAF (looking at you, PHP "standard" library). But as to the names themselves? Doesn't particularly matter much. Unless you're the Bruce Tognazzini of API design, you probably don't have anything of substance to back up why it should be "make_" versus "create_".