For instance, if we look at the distribution of astronomical bodies in the universe, almost nothing can be understood without knowing the initial conditions. Or, to take the other side of the coin: by studying the present day state of astronomical bodies, we can infer quite a bit about the initial conditions of the universe. Whereas, knowing a later state of the balls in the video tells us almost nothing about where the initial ball drop occurred.
Perhaps the answer is “chaotic dynamics”. Yet gravitational interactions can certainly be chaotic. And some chaotic systems still don’t “come to equilibrium”.
I suppose I’m asking how one might look at the dynamical laws at a glance and say one system will come to equilibrium and another will not.