Cash App founder Bob Lee stabbed to death after argument about suspect's sister
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(Yeah, I know, the r/SF subreddit is rough... it's always hard to run a subreddit where the only thing that people have in common is proximity. SF is my favorite place in the world, but it has many real problems. The mods consistently try to find a balance where it's not just an anti-SF crime-ridden sub, but also not censored or hiding real problems.)
I don't mod any city/country subreddit, but I frequent several, and they are basically all awful. I keep visiting them for the rare gems of useful information, but 99% of the posts are complaints about crime or the cost of living, photos of the same five tourist attractions, or meta posts complaining about the aforementioned.
https://www.reddit.com/r/melbourne/comments/7pmjwx/all_melbo...
IMO the engagement optimization problem in social media is driving the increasing share of crime discussions online. Yes crime is getting worse in some areas, but I think crime just heavily drives engagement (which news media has known for a long time). With more conservatives going online, we’re seeing a bifurcation of traditional (cancel or callout culture, some kind of injustice) outrage porn - more common in the past when the internet leaned younger and more educated/urban - and now crime-related outrage porn that appeals to the right wing.
If I could handle snow, I would love to live in Colorado.
…kidding, that place is a cesspool that is basically exactly how you describe it. Overt cynicism and ranting about things every town has (traffic, off leash dogs) combined with power user trying to control the narrative constantly and gain some sort of quasi-celebrity status. Occasionally you get some good content, but it’s pretty rare.
FWIW, I don’t think it’s gotten measurably worse since I started going there periodically circa 2016. I think it’s simply the nature of Reddit and its inner workings producing this dynamic when it comes to local subs. Some are worse than others (likely having to do with the proportion of disenfranchised white dudes in the city), but otherwise it’s mostly going to be the story with almost any local sub.
The good ol' see no evil hear no evil approach to dealing with problems. I don't expect a subreddit to solve the larger problems of the city, but crafting the narrative to downplay it isn't really helping either.
You're spot on, the only thing that binds the users is proximity. They all pretty much universally want a place to bitch about current issues, not to maintain a positive image for tourists.
When looking at regional subreddits, I want to see the places to eat, events that are coming up, when major road work is planned, what new amenities just opened up, etc.
It's totally fine and not nefarious to apply that kind of filter. To suggest the reason for it is image-massaging "for tourists" is unfair.
This is a somewhat curious and surprisingly uncharitable thing for a relatively heavy and long standing HN user to write on, well HN. Right at the top of the submission guidelines, and relatively well followed, is
>Off-Topic: Most stories about politics, or crime, or sports, or celebrities, unless they're evidence of some interesting new phenomenon. Videos of pratfalls or disasters, or cute animal pictures. If they'd cover it on TV news, it's probably off-topic.
That's not because none of that is important, it's because there are endless other places to learn about it and discuss it. Indeed, coverage and discussion of such things are more the rule than the exception in classic major media, which still has the most enormous reach. You don't have to do absolutely everything in one single place. It's the World Wide Web. Other fora are a click away. I think it's hard to argue that "everything forums" are generally better and focused ones generally worse. It's not wrong to want to have places to find the positive and wonderful stuff that isn't on the front page every single day.
>They all pretty much universally want a place to bitch about current issues
Who is "they"? You're creating a self-fulfilling prophecy here: if that is allowed to completely dominate, it'll drive away anyone who doesn't want that 24/7/365, and then all that are left are those who do. If HN suddenly just became a copy of major news front pages and comment sections, I suspect most of us would immediately move on.
>not to maintain a positive image for tourists
And this just seems like a pretty unpleasant dig. Any town let alone big city has all sorts of great stuff happening, interesting nooks and crannies, fun hobby groups looking for others to join, tips and tricks people have discovered to make living there more enjoyable, and on and on. Much of which can be hard to discover, even for those who have lived there a long time. Contrary to your assertion, it's not wrong even for locals to desire a place to find some of that even if it means keeping off a percentage of the generic endless political hot potatoes getting thrown back and forth. Why should a reddit (or any random web forum) suddenly be charged solely with "dealing with problems"?
In this particular case the SF subreddit moderators want it to reflect an aspirational view of how they want SF as a city to be, and the users tend to want to discuss the city as it is.
???
Come on, man.
Even if someone did try and check, there’s nobody working to verify the records.
Why are very emotional but also non-tech related stories being posted on HN.
It's all flamebait (and I've been suckered into contributing to it)
Humans beings are terrible at logic and epistemology on subjective matters, and intelligence in objective domains seems to be often more harmful than helpful, perhaps it gives a misleading sense of competency leading to additional errors.
I understand why the police would feel the urge to advertise themselves and say "See? We are smarter than all of those people so we deserve the money", but mocking people that tried to help because their first assumptions were wrong, is not the more productive way to spend their time. People does not have a diviner ball.
Logical and appropriate/reasonable are two distinct entities.
I can see two coin tosses, and if they came up heads, it is certainly logical to conclude that the coin is heavily biased. Understanding that the quality of the data is poor and that one probably should suspend judgements until further data is in is a sign of maturity.
I've seen this play out over the decades: Hans Reiser, Ellen Pao, etc are common examples.
>See? We are smarter than all of those people
The only person I see doing that here is you. It wasn't logical, it was emotional based on preconceptions about the crime in the city.
The city has a lot of problems and people don’t feel safe. I’m not saying prison is a great idea but ignoring crime is worse.
It’s a story about decay.
8 years ago I would have assumed it was a crime of passion. Today? Probably further decay.
Unfortunately, society tends not to like people who don't take a stance on a given item ("Fence sitter"). As such, being a fence sitter is often the courageous stance, and drawing conclusions and loudly broadcasting them to the world often is, in some part, motivated by cowardice.
I of course do not defend the uninformed speculation. But I also can empathize with the frustration and fear that SF residents must feel at times.
I'd say the epicenter of the tech industry is to the south of San Francisco: Silicon Valley/Santa Clara County/San Mateo County e.g. Google, Apple, Facebook, Sand Hill Road.
Sometimes it’s used as a synonym for “FAANG HQ city” and suddenly “Bay Area” even includes Seattle and Redmond and parts of NYC.
(Am I totally breaking the metaphor there by allowing for multiple epicenters? Perhaps. I guess an earthquake can have only one epicenter. But there could be multiple earthquakes, with multiple epicenters....?)
Still, YC is in the Bay Area, as is Silicon Valley. It’s a huge influence in the tech and entrepreneurship world.
Here is the full complaint: https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/23777761-momeni-char...
Later that night, a surveillance camera recorded Lee
and Momeni getting into Momeni's white BMW outside his
sister's apartment. Additional footage obtained by
police shows the BMW heading to a "dark and secluded
area" near downtown San Francisco.
The two men are later seen standing together on a
sidewalk for a few minutes before Momeni apparently
stabs Lee. Momeni then tossed the knife, got back
in his car and sped away. Additional footage obtained by police shows the
BMW heading to a "dark and secluded area" near
downtown San Francisco.
It certainly seems premeditated. So maybe he would have just stabbed him in front of the apartment building no matter what.On the other hand, if he was going to kill Lee regardless, then why take the extra step of going to a second location? It seems like he truly hoped to avoid detection. So maybe he wouldn't have stabbed him in front of the apartment building, where there were plenty of cameras.
On the other other hand, that also doesn't make a lot of sense. Even though he didn't kill Lee in front of the apartment building, he.... left an absolutely damning trail of video evidence there, and then wound up being caught on video anyway at the secondary location. And then left the murder weapon at the scene, presumably with his prints on it.
In the end, Momeni's actions make just about zero rational sense so... how much useful speculation can we really do here? Zero IMO.
Combined with the stabbing being with a kitchen knife, I’m inclined to say he probably wasn’t entirely rational at the time, and more of a spur of the moment thing.
In legal terms, this might well meet the definition of premeditation, as the article said. Grabbing a murder weapon, carrying it with you to meet your victim, and driving them to another location to carry out the murder probably more than meets the definition. He was clearly sloppy, and it certainly seems possible that he was wishy-washy to an extent (possibly hoping to talk things out with Lee somehow) but I don't think those things matter too much legally.
I'm sure this is clear and does not need to be said, but: I'm not a lawyer.
A killing is never really "rational" from an ethical or moral standpoint, except for extraordinary situations like self-defense.
But premeditated murders are rational in another, more purely functional sense of the word: the killer was not untethered from reality, they understood the consequences of their actions, and took a series of concrete steps toward achieving the murder.
For a moment I thought you were referring to all the commenters who thought this was a "SF going lawless" story.
Yes, many many people jumped to some terrible conclusions about SF because of this story. And by American standards SF isn't bad with violent crime.
But also the streetscape and property crime in SF are terrible.
Both can be true.
The only thing worse than evil men is the indifference of good men.
This happens all the time... wanna see something fun, walk around your city saying "hi" to everyone and see how often you get a "hi" back.
It is too bad people aren't cordial anymore.
Everyone just starts to assume that person is drunk, on drugs, whatever.
We don't know what was happening in those cases. For example, we don't know those passers-by did or didn't actually see. Let's not make the same mistake all over again of projecting a pre-existing narrative onto a paucity of facts. (I don't mean to pick on you personally. We all do this, of course.)
Edit: FWIW, there's a long history of belief about bystander apathy which hasn't held up under scrutiny. Related:
Surveillance cameras debunk the bystander effect - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20417986 - July 2019 (161 comments)
Killer of Kitty Genovese Dies in Prison (Origin of “Bystander Effect”) - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=11430051 - April 2016 (3 comments)
https://sfstandard.com/criminal-justice/video-appears-to-sho...
Arrest made in SF killing of Bob Lee – alleged killer also worked in tech - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=35555525 - April 2023 (1161 comments)
Edit: When the original thread was happening after Bob Lee was killed (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=35448899), I considered pinning a comment to the top of the thread reminding commenters that none of us had any knowledge of what had happened and asking them not to have a flamewar between pre-existing narratives. I decided not to because I didn't want to overly interfere, but I regret that now.
If anyone cares - in the end the decisions I made were (1) to factor out the comments that were actually about Bob Lee into their own thread (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=35457341), and (2) to let the other flamewar just burn since there wasn't anything we could to do stop it. The first decision was a good one—that thread spent many hours at the top of the front page. The second decision was probably good also—I have a pretty fine-tuned sense of what we can't control. But I do regret not posting that other reminder. I very much wanted to, and overruled myself—and now I wish I had left a better record of the mods upholding the value of not rushing to judgement. I was painfully aware of this at the time.
p.s. You might be wrong about Garry too. I happened to talk with him that morning and although he didn't try to influence how we handled the story on HN (people at YC don't do that), the direction of the conversation was opposite to what you're assuming. (In any case, if you're implying that Garry's politics influence HN moderation in any way, that's definitely wrong. We haven't changed anything since he came back to YC.)
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Btw I wasn't favoring either side in the flamewar, just doing the standard mod thing of asking people not to break HN's rules so badly.
The fact that a person was stabbed and killed on the street and the killer felt he could get away with it is kind of a good example of "the lawlessness" you're trying to downplay. This doesn't depend on the socio-economic status of the stabbing victim, or the attacker.
Criminals all the way up.
more like crazy
This is Musk's baseline. Nothing special about this case in that regard.
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edit: imagine citing the suffering of fatherless children as a reason not to criticize people who lied about how their father died.
"There's so much suffering in the world today; how will putting me in jail help?"
Tragedy often makes "sensational" news, I think that's all GP was trying to say. I'd be very impressed if you've never read a sensational headline that involves a tragedy and been amazed at how the unfolding story defied your expectations and kept you on the edge of your seat.
If you wouldn't mind reviewing https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and taking the intended spirit of the site more to heart, we'd be grateful.
The people who are most affected are immigrant small business store owners. Rich tech people fled SF for places that can hold bigger campuses
If you wouldn't mind reviewing https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and taking the intended spirit of the site more to heart, we'd be grateful.