I just finished knitting myself a winter scarf.
I just finished knitting myself a winter scarf.
Of course, you will still have to remember to increase your row counter at the end of each row. I have a row counter I keep hung around my neck, so it's easily accessible. A physical row counter (as opposed to an app) is better for this. I really like this cheapo one: https://www.amazon.com/Clover-Knitting-Stitch-Counter-Kacha-...
The first afghan I crocheted, I probably pulled out as many stitches as I successfully created. But, that's how you learn.
The first step is casting on. This gets the first row of stitches on the needle and no matter what you have to start here. There's a ton of variations of it, but this is a nice basic cast-on: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vm6oaYzHyA
Cast on ~20 or so stitches and learn the knit stitch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Egp4NRhlMDg
Do this for a few inches until you can repeatedly go up and down without dropping/missing stitches and your work looks uniform. You'll probably have to pull it out and start over a few times. Also, about 98% of mistakes will either be dropped stitches, or things that can be fixed by intentionally dropping stitches and picking them back up correctly so this is a useful skill to work on here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9obiqiTAGNw
Then, do a basic 2-color scarf with the knit stitch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LsmHWRIo2UI
At this point, you'll have the basics down and a ton of muscle memory built up which lets you get more creative. A 1x1 Knit/Purl scarf would get you into purling (the "reversed" knit stitch, useful for patterning), or I jumped straight to socks which teaches knit/purl ribbing and some basic shaping.
You're going to make mistakes, get frustrated, have to start over again, etc, etc, but that just means you're learning and are ahead of everyone who still hasn't started.
However, what really got me started was the loads of videos on youtube.