Lids must remain up always. For family peace, I removed the lid completely.
How's using the lid a controversial thing at all?
(Yes, the solution here is to put the lid back up when done, but then that ruins a bit of the GP's (I think) intended humor.)
Man 2x, Woman 0x = 1 "contamination" cost incurred Man 1x, Woman 1x = 2 "contamination" cost incurred
https://www.theunconventionalroute.com/men-pee-sitting-down/ or just search using terms like: men are learning to pee sitting down
Just like rules are there to be followed, the lid is there to be closed. Ordnung muss sein.