This doesn’t make sense. Of course you can decide whether to enable Apple Arcade or not. Obviously it’s a paid service, so you have to pay to enable it.
Who is ‘pushing’ you to do anything?
Who is ‘pushing’ you to do anything?
I feel that you are either arguing in bad faith, or determined to defend Apple at all costs. I guess when your car manufacturer will start showing you "Enable Entertaining Package Plus for 14$/mo" in your car dashboard, you will be happy, think "of course I can decide whether to enable it or not", and probably feel very clever.
If you are comparing a panel in the settings app to an ad on the dashboard of a car, I think it’s pretty clearly not me.