It took me a while to understand in which direction you are arguing.
Of course the US is complicit (just not solely complicit as you imply I claimed - nice rhetorical figure by the way just a bit too obviously applied). They knowingly let a dictator pay them in natural resources while these resources were lacking for the people and this lead to famine and mass starvation.
So to stay in your image: When Remington sells me a shotgun knowing I will go and use it to kill my family (because it was clearly visible) they are complicit.
If the US would not have know the consequences of their deal with Stalin for the ordinary people we would be talking about a different situation here. But the US knew. And they still took the grain and other resources. And that makes them complicit.
In my world, that makes the U.S. very clearly an accomplice to a dictator who is starving his people. And also profiteers from such a system.
But hey as if this were something new or shocking. I don't know about US educational system, but i thought it was public knowledge, that the US acted that way as their standard modus operandi for many decades now.
No matter if with South American dictators, with African dictators or even with dictatorial regimes in the Middle East, as long as they do not become too rebellious and do not challenge the supremacy of the USA the US are willing to trade and not look too closely towards the crimes against humanity these dictators are performing.
Take Saddam Hussein as an example.
Wasn't it the U.S. that continued to financially and militarily support Saddam Hussein in the Iraq-Iran war even after he openly used chemical weapons? Without the U.S., Saddam would never have become head of state in the late 1970s. And the US gladly bought his oil - ignoring what he did.
This is the same as we Germans are currently also responsible (at least in part) for the prolongation of the war in Ukraine, because we still do not want to give up the gas supply from Russia. We are prolonging the war because our money is helping to finance Putin's military advance.
Our convenience and the intransigence of our government makes us complicit in the death of many civilians.