>Don't ever take dating advice from women. What women think they want and what they actually want are two different things.
man i guess if you really want to know what hn's values are then just broach dating. jesus.
man i guess if you really want to know what hn's values are then just broach dating. jesus.
There are many areas of disconnect with people in general in what they think they want versus what they actually want.
For example: Money. Many people (men especially) think they want lots of money. They don't. What they want is happiness. There's even data to back up the fact that past a certain point money doesn't make anyone happier. Yet the drive to become successful is so strong that men will sacrifice their happiness for a shot at more money. Why does burnout even exist? Because men desire money so much that they illogically sacrifice their happiness for something that won't bring them any more happiness.
The above isn't absolutely true but it's a generality that people understand to be generally true.
Like men and money... women and dating is one of these psychological disconnects humans have.
The problem with many people and with you is that everyone has all these psychological triggers that are always on the look out for anything sexist or racist. Relax man, not many people are racist or sexist and HN should foster an environment where people are able to talk about real biological gender differences without getting cancelled.
There's no holocaust denial here or anything like that. Also women and dating advice isn't even some kind of controversial hard hitting topic that effects anything.
We can have mature discussion about the merits and disgusting parts of a death penalty which directly influences human lives but we can't do so about women dishing out bad dating advice? Come on man.
It's not about the money, it's about the winning, money is just the trophy
The process is:
Winning > money trophy > brain juices > inflating ego > happiness