I'll reply, but probably not how you want.
I've always been a smart guy at a lot of things, especially math, who never had to try that hard in school.
I went to exactly one chess club meeting in high school, as I knew how to play and wanted to learn more. I was defeated in a few moves by a kid who not only laughed at me, but told his friends about whatever rush I just fell for and they all had a good laugh.
As you may imagine, I never went to another meeting.
Years later I came across Yahoo Chess, and thought I'd give that a try. I was beat by someone from Syria who used his victory to explain to me why Americans are so stupid and cocky.
I learned two things about chess -
1) It's not about being gifted or smart, it takes a lot of work and practice.
2) The community can be toxic as hell, so have thick skin. Or don't, I don't even play anymore. Two games were enough to teach me I don't want anything to do with that club.