But you seem to be holding them accountable not for their actions, but their words later.
There is entirely too much focus on peoples thoughts rather than their track record of actions.
But you seem to be holding them accountable not for their actions, but their words later.
There is entirely too much focus on peoples thoughts rather than their track record of actions.
Let's raise the stakes for another example. If a cop does a debrief after a routine traffic stop and says, "I was waiting for a reason to shoot this man where he stands", that's a matter of concern. It doesn't matter that the cop did the correct thing this time, because they're showing that the desire to kill someone is the driving force in their actions.
For instance, you can interpret disappointment in at least two ways:
(A) Disappointment that they were unable to apply lethal force regardless of the situation; or
(B) Disappointment that the situation did not call for lethal force, but had no desire to apply lethal force where it was not required.
You chose (A), but there's really no evidence presented for that interpretation over (B).
This is just another reason we should judge actions rather than words. Actions are much more objective.
I can't think of any reason why someone should be justifiably disappointed they couldn't apply lethal force.
I don't claim that words mean nothing, but we seem to be weighting them much too highly. Especially when we have actual actions to compare it to.