this is a repulsively small minded, narrow & belittling take, which refuses to consider the possibility of there being some truths here, and there not being some litany of horrible reasons against this person. most people do have majora faults & limitations but still find love & connection; to begin by ruling it out for this person is so unkind. it wraps with a blanket value judgement about what high status men want that feels like a hideous projection. please I hope people don't think like this or take such nasty words as guidance or explanation.