Readers are placing a large degree of faith in the author's self-assessment. I, and I imagine many others, have known people who are totally oblivious to exactly how repellent their personalities are. The author may be extremely difficult to talk to, or extremely emotionally unstable. They mentioned 'years of therapy' in their post. Most well-balanced people get through their life without requiring 'years of therapy'. The author states that they have no difficulty matching with men on dating apps. This does not count for much: The difficulty doing so between men and women is totally asymmetrical.

Men and women really do not seek out the same qualities in one another. This should not be as controversial an assertion as it tends to be in the modern social climate. I feel like the so-called "modern woman" was sold a bill of goods when they were told "What's good for goose is good for gander". This is simply not true. High-status men who have choices available to them in the sexual marketplace will generally choose women embodying more traditional feminine qualities. The author of the post even states as much in a roundabout fashion.