Women discussing their personal experiences is "controversial"? And we "should expect" trolling and harassment and worse? That's exactly the problem. You think that that's normal and acceptable.
https://www.cnbc.com/2020/12/16/40percent-of-women-in-tech-s...
Beyond that, harassment is not the only problem I talked about.
Anyway, my comment was about base rates of harassment received by anyone saying anything critical of anyone else: they are high, no matter who you are and what you are saying. It's not right, but it's not limited to women.