Edit: removed. I should take my own advice.
But when I read all the comments on this thread I think "Wow. If this set of innocuous requests is generating this response, then that speaks volumes. Who am I to say this type of pent-up bitterness doesn't affect her career?"
The list of asks amounts to "be a decent person and stick up for folk". This is stuff that should, like you say, go without saying.
https://www.cnbc.com/2020/12/16/40percent-of-women-in-tech-s...
Beyond that, harassment is not the only problem I talked about.
Anyway, my comment was about base rates of harassment received by anyone saying anything critical of anyone else: they are high, no matter who you are and what you are saying. It's not right, but it's not limited to women.