EDIT: For MacOS, I found this: https://github.com/kyleneideck/BackgroundMusic
Do you really think merely having your name show up as one of 35 attendees in Zoom is really going to positively affect your career?
I used to be worried about things like face time and "they'll notice I'm gone" but I gave that worry up. I guarantee at most companies it's really not a big deal. No VP goes back to his office after a meeting and says to himself "Hmm, DroneEngineer43318 was not silently sitting at my meeting. I must ensure he doesn't get promoted next cycle!". If you're not presenting or need the information, nobody is going to care that you're absent.
There you have per application volume control
I use this to tune windows system sounds all the way down, and content up. Or balancing audio levels of different apps when they don't have good in-app controls on level (increasingly rare).