I just got back from my first cruise, which I was excited for but had no real idea of what to expect or whether I'd enjoy it. For context, I suffer from pretty extreme anxiety and seriously dislike crowds of people. I also have a 19-month-old, who came with us on the cruise. Here are my thoughts:
I cruised on the Disney Dream, one of their newest ships. Everywhere you looked, there was some awesome detail that you'd likely miss if you weren't paying attention. From the hidden Mickeys in the tiles of the bathrooms, to the way they laid out their private island (which only ever has one ship docked at a time) so as to minimize congestion.
There were only two times I felt it was crowded: the breakfast buffet and debarkation. The former could've been avoided by more clever design of the area, the latter could've been avoided by staggering the debarkation times rather than adding pressure to get you off the ship so that they could turn it around for the next cruise (which embarked that afternoon!)
I never felt pressured to go do anything. If I didn't want to go to dinner, I could just order room service, which was quick, 24 hours, and completely included in the ticket price. If I didn't really want to be off the boat, I could get back on at any time -- or just not get off at all. There were so many things that we could do if we wanted to, but didn't have to; I appreciated that.
Being disconnected from the interwebs for a week was amazing. I know I could get that from camping or somesuch, but there's something about being completely disconnected from the outside world but still having the luxuries of 2019 that speaks to me and my laziness.
The nursery was great. My daughter had never been in daycare or anything of the sort, so we were nervous about it, but she absolutely loved it. It was convenient and let my wife and I go have a nice date night onboard, kid-free.
Everyone bent over backwards to help in any way they could, and any request we had was taken seriously. Whether it was getting my daughter a hot dog each night at dinner (which wasn't on the menu, but they accomodated just fine -- since she wouldn't eat anything else), having our drinks ready for us as soon as we arrived, getting us ear plugs, or anything else that may have come up.
There were a million other little things that I (and my family) enjoyed about this, but suffice it to say, this will be at least an annual thing for us now; my wife and I are even talking about doing one cruise with the kid and one without, each year, just because we enjoyed it so much.